My girl says she doesnt feels loved anymore?

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I am a girl and ive told my bf that in our long distance relationship as well.we re both at different uni's.

this is the 3rd year we are doing this.

she doesnt feel loved because she misses you and you cannot phisically comfort her therefore it gets frustrating coz theres nothing you can do!

What you can do if you care for her alot / love her. is take a day off, suprise visit her for one day and talk, tell her that you love her that u dont wanna lose her that your days are hard for yo too but, things are going to be be the way they are for *** years/months/weeks.

What my bf and i did in the beginning of our LDR was argue.

The most important thing is trust and ground rules

rules: how often u cud see each other, phone calls could be frustrating when both of u feel weird dont get offended when the other says 'i need alone time ill call u back later/tomorrow/' etc etc.

everyday communication is important as well...even a cheeky 'i love you' txt message .

and obviously she will tell u why shes feeling unloved ( i guess its that she misses you) and try resolving this via rules and TRUST

gud luck xx

I can honestly sypathise with your girlfriend. Being Long Distance is hard and girls tend to have low self esteem. No matter what you reasons are for not talking to her as much she will always feels like there's something wrong with her. She'll say she needs to do more or whatever. No matter what you do, unfortunately, she will feel bad. She was probably upset when she told you that and just needed you to tell her you love her. The little things will make it better. If you facebook maybe send her "Flair" or Superwall messages or something like that - little things that wont take you much effort or time, but will make her feel great and let her know you're thinking of her.

Hold on to her, and let her know you understand she's hurting. You don't need to make a big effort but little texts every so often - ANYTHING - will make her feel better. This may have nothing to do with you but she won't just get over it.

Good luck

If I Was Her I Would Probably Feel The Same Way! You Need To Spend As Much Time With Her As Possible Or It May Result In You Being Alone On Christmas!!

I would try to find a way to go spend a day with her and make her feel special and tell her you love her as much as you can. Take her out to lunch or something and let her know that you still care about her and that you still love her. I hope everything works out.

tell her and show her how much you care for her, surprise her, candy flowers? what was the last thing you did for her? Be creative maybego see her. Relationship take work especially at long distances you can't just put it in cruise control and expect it to work.

thats what they say when they are losing interest and thinking about breaking it off, that way they put the blame on you and make themself feel better. sorry to say that but watch out for it it happened to me in a long distance relationship

u sound like a great guy but thats how we females can be at times.... maybe do little unpredictable sweet things like:

write letters and poems

text sweet quotes

talk more maybe build a friendship

make her laugh

she also have to understand that your in school and u have alot going on

well show her that you still care

some ideas would be to write her a poem to show her how you truly care.

this can be very effective..

other ideas would be to write her a love letter.

or even plan out a holiday with her on a day your both free so you two can get reconnected

hope this helped

well its probably hard to love wen its a long distance

what long distance relationship that's all chops