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My dad is never home b/c he is always with his nasty fiance! i hate her family cuz i think that she is just using my father for his money. She has 3 kids and my family has 3 kids. They got jiggy one evening and we now have a baby! Well they do! So that's a total of 7 kids if they get married but i really don't want them too! Please Help me! What should i do or say that will help my dad see my view and understand me!! I just really need some help!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    \you need to stay out of your dads life, he is an adult and is capable of making his own decsions. Work on your own relationship and your family.

    It is difficult when parents split and meet new partners, but they have to live their life too. One day your own child may well do the same to you, would your tolerate a child telling yoou who to have as a partner?

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask for some quality time from your Dad and tell him that you want some time just between the two of you. Keep in mind that you can't make your Dad's decisions. I feel that you do need to communicate your feelings to him (in a nice way of course) just to let him know how you feel. Reassure him over your love for him in your conversation at the beginning and at the end. Blended families can be stressful. Things may not go exactly how you want them to go-but working at your relationship with your father is very important because even though there are a lot of people involved in his life there is enough love for all in his life. Just ask for some quality time with your Dad and be nice to him, and above all when you tell him how you feel don't be mean, just tell him you are having a tough time dealing with all of the adjustments and that you need his help with this.

  • 1 decade ago

    I can understand your concern for your dad but be careful with such a sensitive subject!!! I would make sure he knows how you feel but don't expect him to just drop her.. they do have a baby together. And this will be possibly be awkward for you and your dad from now on. It's not worth losing a relationship with him is it?

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you need to grow up and express your concerns to your father. Tell him you would feel better if he gets a prenup and makes a will. Talk to him like an adult. Right now you sound like a jealous teenager.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just try to be practical.if your dad is taking care of you and ur family than let him do what he wants because no one can stop anyone to love someone.try to make your dad spends more time to your family.all dis i can suggest.hope for the best.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    calm down! just be bold. your dad will like your confidence and take you seriously . talk to him! plus it is not just up to him, he needs to make sure everyone is comfortable with the idea of a new dad/mom.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you need to talk to your dad explain to him how you feel, he may not like what you to him but just explain that that is your view and that you understand he likes her but you just want him to know how you feel

  • 1 decade ago

    just PRay..God wiLL answer your questions...it may not be that soon but He will make a way...He is the only one who can make impossible things happen..Pray with all your HeaRT..God Bless!

  • 1 decade ago

    You should ether tell your dad that you don't like her or you should deal with it.

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