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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

worst night ever! friend trouble, parent trouble , EVERYTHING!?

Well one Friday night, me n my old best friend n another friend went to a sports arena & they were a bunch of little kids. my friend saw her cousin there so we said hi to them (they were the little kids) Later that night 1 of my friends left n my old best friend was just running around so i followed her & she saw my friends cousin she went over to the & keep saying " PARTY IN YOUR PANTS" or " IS THERE A MIRROR IN YOUR PANTS CAUSE I CAN SEE MYSELF IN THEM" then would run away. So i went up to my friends cousin n i said she is weird just ignore n she will leave you alone. But her friends thought i was saying stuff to her so they told their mom on me. N one of the kids mom came over and started screaming at me & i tried to explain that i was telling her not to worry and that it was my friend but she said dont talk back to me I'm an adult. So the girls mom told the manger n i ended up in the office with my old best friend & they called my parents n told them to come pick me up. When my dad got there the mom told him what happened. n when i got into my car i was getting screamed at & my friend didn't say a word. Later that night i sneaked on the computer to tell her i no longer wanted to be her friend n to stay away from me. She first im-ed me saying" I'M SO SORRY" n i said why didn't you say anything to the manager or my parents. Her idiotic answer was " I didn't want your parents to scream at me." & " i was waiting for the manager to say i need to call my dad" Then i told my mom that it was my friend but my mom kept accusing a liar. I was really mad & ended up being grounded for 2 months. Did i do the write thing to tell my friend to stay away from me? Or should i have said something else. Please help!

thanks & happy new year!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    To Lacey,

    That's not the point. Being a mother or 2 teenage girls, I'm very happy that this girl told her friend to stay away from her. Do you know that What your friend said is sexual harassment & could get into tons of trouble for it. For something that serious, she should have spoken up. And I know for sure that your parents wouldn't scream at a child that isn't theirs. If this were to happen to my daughters & her friend spoken up, I would of been more calm and i wouldn't ground my daughter. But I would make her friend tell the manager. I think you did perfectly fine with this situation. & do your parents a favor by staying away from her, she seems like to much trouble.

    Happy new year Hun.

  • Babe
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You did the right thing. You took the blame and your friend let you. I would not hang around with that person anymore. If they try to contact you let them know the only way you will be friends is to tell the truth to your parents and the manager. Sometimes sorry isn't enough now that you are grounded for something you didn't do.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She should have spoken up, but would you have done it? Would speak up if the situation was reversed? Maybe so. But sending her off is not a good way. If she was your best friend, or an old one, you'd forgive her. And of course she didn't want to be screamed at.

  • 1 decade ago

    You did the right thing. She doesn't seem to be the best friend out there. You can find a better friend who wont leave you with all the blame,

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't blame you she totally let you take the fall for that one. She should have been mature enough to fess up to what she did and get you off the hook.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    too long didn't read

  • 1 decade ago

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