What do you do if your girlfriend's ex comes back?

dude ima let you know something she had a long term relationship with her ex and she loved him so her feelings are still there, i know when my ex came back i took him over the boy i was going with( which was a mistake cuz he end up hurting me again) but i did it because i still loved him...so either you can stay around and see what happens try to talk to her to see what she wants to do, or just let her go now and save the hurt..i hope i helped

There's only so much you can do. As her current boyfriend, you deserve to know whats going on, and if she's considering leaving you for him, you should have the opportunity to make your case, but in the end, a successful relationship has to be a mutual decision between the people involved. I can only say that I hope it works out for you.

Boy, this sure sounds familiar. I dated a guy for 4 yrs and we were constantly breaking up. I dated guys in between but always went back to him; it took me 4 yrs to wise up (in matters of the heart I'm a loser). So I would suggest you ready yourself for the day when she gets back together with him. Get yourself a gf who isn't still emotionally attached to her ex. How will you know? He's part of her past; not her present.

There is a reason he is her ex. Most likely she has moved on to greener pastures (as in you). If she decides to work things out with him, then its her loss. But instead of stressing about it, talk to her...talking helps any situation! Good luck!

Tell her that you really like her and would appreciate it if she didn't talk to him unless it was strictly friends. Find out if she is in it for REAL with you. Just be careful man, girls can be harsh sometimes.

Tell her that you won't be around forever and that if she see's something with you to stay committed with you. Otherwise, tell her you won't be seeing her anymore.

I was in this exact situation. Play it cool, don't beg her to be with you, don't draw attention to yourself. Let her chase you!

I played it right and I've been with her for 3 years already.

Tell her how you feel, make your intentions clear, get her side of the story and where she stands with him and if it doesn't work out, beat the living sh*t out of him. It might not help, but at least it will feel good!

Have you had sex

Why did she break up with him

when you know that do everything a good boyfriend would and try avoid what he did

tell him to bak off. shes with you now and he shouldnt be butting in lyk dat! tell her how you feel about him and the way that they are acting towards each other... that mite hlp...