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I NEED HELP WITH A RELATIONSHIP QUESTION?
There is this guy that I kinda like. When I asked him out the first time he said no. I asked him again because I really thought he might like me the same way. He said yes the second time. We dated for a year. It has been hard for me though with emotions because I have delt with about 5 deaths, 1 car accident, and just a buch of drama in the past 2 years. I asked him how he felt about me and he said he sees me as just a dear friend. So now i dont know how i really feel because it hurts to find out that after all this time that is how he feels. What should I do? I dont know what to do at all. If you have any comments or advice please tell me. Thank You.
4 Answers
- IMspazztardLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
You asked him out once. He said no. Little advice about guys in general. Unless there is some big change in how he sees you since the first time he turned you down, he's not likely to say yes on the second time you ask him out. If you were really good friends with him before the second time you asked, he may have done it more just to see if any interest could be sparked at all; not so much because the interest was already there.
Whatever the case, let him go. Now you know that he only sees you as a good friend. No use moping about it because it won't change. Just be thankful you have a good friend and try to find a guy that sees you for more.
- 1 decade ago
Sounds like you have hit a rough spot. if he doesn't have any feelings for you then let him go. you can't force a relationship with someone and I am sure that's not what you want anyway. So just give him space and meet someone new.
Change is hard but sometimes the most rewarding unexpected things happen when you accept it in your life.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
tell him that if he sees u as jst a friend that u shouldnt b going out.. aft all that has happend to u u cnt go out with a guy who doesnt like u.. and im srry for all the deaths car accidents and drama