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Ok im really confused (Easy 10 points)?

Ok so heres the story. Im a freshman in hs and i met this girl in september. I like her a lot, and I asked her if she liked me. She said yes, but that she wasnt ready for a bf yet. So ive been waiting patiently talking to her and hanging out. But I was getting depressed because I was waiting so long, so I began to like her friend. But I was talking to the original girl from 12 pm friday to 3 in the morning today. we talked about everything, including what she liked in a guy and stuff. Im starting to like her A LOT.

We were supposed to go to Manhattan for a project with her and a bunch of friends, but she canceled. SO we never went. Today i txt her and find out she went to the city today with a bunch of her girlfriends. I was soo dissappointed. SO i asked her and her if we could hang out at the mall or something some day this week, and she sed well talk about it. Im really confused, why would she lay me off like that? And should I make a move on her at the mall, even if her other friend that I like is gonna be there? Thanks.

Update:

Alright guys thanks. Yeah I thought because her friend might like me that she didn't wan to get involved. But I forgot to mention that wen i was talking to her she was telling me what guys should do and shouldnt do and she told me not to try to make a girl jealous and not to flirt with her best friend. I figured she was telling me to stop hitting it off with her friend. I don't know which to choose.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Ok heres what the deal is. Its not that she doesnt like you, its just that (1) she likes someone else and doesnt want to be tied up if he ever makes a move (2) she likes you but doesnt think u guys would be a perfect fit, but knows if she tells u that, u wont show her the same amount of attention.The same thing happened to me a few years back. I liked a girl, she said she liked me to. i started to spend alot more time with her thinking it would improve my odds but it didnt. Like they say, girls know in the first five minutes if they like u and how far they will go with u. If yall were headed to a relationship, ud be there by now. And another sign, girls always want to hang with there man, so by her ditching ur plans, and not giving u definite dates to chill....U ARE NOW OFFICIALY IN THE FRIEND ZONE!!!! dont be rude, just slow lay off. she'll all of a sudden miss u and start callin u, but dont give in cause u know ur in friend zone, be strong. she'll move and leave with good refrences with all her friends. TRIPLE SCORE! good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    So it sounds like you and the original girl have a lot in common but by the way it sounds I think you are in the friend zone. If she wanted something to happen she would have grabbed the chance to make a move asap. Try for her friend but be careful because it might backfire: The original girl might get jealous, girls want what they can't have so she might change her mind as soon as she see's you attracted to someone else.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sweetie, if you like this girl and she's told you she likes you, than just ask her out on a date and see where things go from there. If she's still not ready then you either move on or continue to wait until she is.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just do whatevee feels right to YOU. Its very nice youre considering the other girls feelings, but if shes not ready, then you could wait longer, or not. See, none of us here can exactly tell you what to do, but I say just do whatever feels right and what you want, date someone who you really, truly like a lot.

  • 5 years ago

    Austin

  • No, you shouldn't make a move. She seems confused or indecisive. You should lay off for a little while and see how things go.

  • 1 decade ago

    dont make a move on her friend, cause then yu'll just look like yur settling for anything or are just a horny jerk. also, maybe her friends said or did something to make her change her mind.

    i say talk to her, because yu wont know for sure until you do

  • 1 decade ago

    I think she might know that her friend likes you, so she can't be with you because of their friendship.... Just be patient and see what she tells you....good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she probably doesn't like you.

    my friend did that to guy that i am now friends with.

    he really likes her and she said she wasn't ready for a boyfriend.

    but she lead him on and

    now she ended it with him and now she has a boyfriend and it really sucks.

    try to think about someone else now.

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