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rough time in relationship?
i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years (we met in high school) and now we're both in college now and idk we hit this rough patch in our relationship that our spark isn't much there anymore. we care and love about each other, but i just have this feeling that he wants to do more things or something. what should i do and how can i keep my relationship spark alive as if i was falling in love with him all over again? i need help b/c i love him a lot and i don't want to lose him.
5 Answers
- 1 decade ago
Things like this tend to happen when you have been in a relationship for awhile. You both need to have your own lives and do things without each other so you have your space but you also need to enjoy the time you do spend together.
Do something spontaneous for him, or cook him a nice dinner and surprise him with some nice, new lingerie. And better yet, speak to him about your relationship and find out how he is feeling about the whole thing.
- 1 decade ago
You can't stop the inevitable, all you can do is do your part in the relationship if he can't reciprocate then you will know where his state of mind is. It takes two to make it work sweetie , don't force yourself to do all the work in the relationship and keep in mind things and people change it doesn't mean its you or you did something wrong. I would give him a little space to keep from getting hurt then let him come to you
- 1 decade ago
well this happened to me. if you both do everything together then you should stop. when you are together to much sometimes they think that they cant do anything w/o you. give him some space then you will want to see him more often and when you arent with him do stuff with your friends just give him some room. then it should help a little at least.
- 1 decade ago
Ask him what other things he wants to do - maybe u can do them together - talk to each other.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
try new sex positions like sit on him backwards and look up sex positions or how to keep a relationship hot