hot guy ugly girl ..ugly guy hot girl??!?!?

The looks are such a small fraction of what matters in a person, that it's almost irrelevant. For example, you could be the cutest girl in the world, but just by looking at the way you write, I KNOW that I could never have an interesting conversation with you. Looks are useful for the short term, but in the long term it's what's inside your head that counts.

I've seen more hot girls with ugly guys than hot guys with ugly girls. But i've seen many fat girls with skinny guys (but apart from the girl's weight they were all pretty)

Ok,i never really understood that,too.But,i guess those people go for "personality" or something.I have a guy friend who's totally handsome,like,stunning,and he goes for plain looking,overweight girls.I was very surprised at that,since,he's got tons for pretty girls around him who want him.Though,he does seem to be preoccupied with appearance(not the metrosexual style,though,good thing),he goes for the not so attractive ones.And funny thing,he always finds himself dumped by those same plain looking,overweight girls.Always broken-hearted and all.So,i don't get why doesn't he raise his standards in matters of beauty,since,it doesn't work with those girls,anyway...He could pick a pretty girl any time.And i've noticed the same with the pretty girls who get dumped and treated like crap by their not-so-good-looking boyfriends.It sucks.So,in the end,i guess,it's what they go for.Maybe they like to be the good-looking one in the relationship.

With me,though,is different.I'm really picky,i'm not dying to have a boyfriend and i love being single.Not a problem,it's my full choice.I wouldn't date someone who's less attractive than me,because that "chemistry"s really important to me.I need to feel attracted to that person,and i seldom DO feel attracted to anyone...Because,well,i'm picky.I'd rather stay single forever than date someone i wasn't attracted enough to.I don't see all this pressure to have a boyfriend make sense.It doesn't.Why should i make such a compromise just because someone says it's "normal" to have boyfriends and date.It's not a must and i'm actually not even looking.

It's also probably because they choose less attractive partners because they're easier to be with.If they dated a pretty girl,it's known that a lot of the pretty girls who know they're pretty,tend to play harder to get and all that.And they also expect more.And also probably because they don't wanna have competition.So,it's more comfortable for them to be with someone less attractive.Same with the pretty girls who have ugly bfs.:)

I'm not shallow. However, when I met my ex-boyfriend he wasn't the best looking guy and I didn't look at him twice. As I got to know him more though, I noticed how good looking he was internally which shined out externally. I know it helps, but theres more important things than looks. What is seen changes, but what is unseen stays eternally.

-GMO

I know what you mean

I do the same thing i will look at couples and be like what do you see in him you could do some much better

and then i think maybe hes rich

it's awful

everyone you like gets much cuter the longer you know them & the more you like them. when i first started dating my boyfriend i didn't think he was all that cute, but then his acne like disappeared and he is like a greek god haha. but i think good genuine people wont care, the thing is a lot of very nice looking people WORK to look like that, so some of them are really concerned about looks in relationships.

so what,if there was a guy that had a really nice personality,funny,genuine i would go out with him regardless of weather he looks like a supermodel or not,not everyone is that shallow.

kids wow experience life and you know the answer to your question

Why does everything have to be about looks?

stop being shallow and grow up and experience everything for yourself.