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Can a married man love two women?
I have been seeing a married man now for 5 years. Is is possible that he thinks of me more than just someone to have sex with. If it was just a fling would it last this long?
44 Answers
- sourpatchkidLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
yes, it's possible to love more than one person. It happens all the time. It's just a different kind of love.
But, whether your boyfriend loves you is anyone's guess. He obviously enjoys spending time with you and likes you, or he wouldn't have stuck around for five years, but at the end of the day , he will never make a committment to you - he can't - he's already made one to someone else, and if he was going to leave her for you, he would already have done so.
This is really unhealthy unless you're willing to accept that you will always be the other woman, and you will never have the relationship or the love that he has for his wife.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If it were just a fling it would not last as long as it has. Many women don't want to accept that their husband can fall in love with another woman. Also women fall in love with two men. It is not uncommon. If you truly love this man you have to accept him for who he is and also accept the situation that he is in. I know he put himself in this situation, but just imagine the hell his wife is putting him through because he has fallen for another woman. But also don't make the mistake of thinking if he gets divorced from his wife that he will be faithful to you. This kind of man will never be satisfied with only one woman. Being a man who has dated more than one woman at a time. I enjoy sex more when I have the variety of more than one woman. I get bored with just one woman. I also cared deeply about each of the women I dealt with. Women may call that being a dog, but it's the simple truth.
- Anonymous5 years ago
He may think that he can. He may think that the wife will be the house woman and the other women will be for fun. The other women will be willing to put up with the house wife as long as she gets the money and the good time. Some wives will put up with the mistress, to keep the house and the security. But most, will not allow this and will not be willing to be the house women and share her man with another.
- 1 decade ago
Men are unpredictable. But I am ashamed that you are doing this to the other woman.
It is possible, but life doesn't work that way. I know, it isn't fair -- but you still have to face it. You are being used as a toy and his wife is being used as an emotional outlet. You can't trust men like that, and I have no idea whether people should trust you now either.
- 1 decade ago
Why would you see a married man???
Why do you want to be a home wrecker??
For sex??
Do you know you are hurting his wife and possibly his family?
Now to answer your question...
He probaly isn't getting good sex from his wife so he is coming to you,
5 yrs thats long, And he is still married, I think he loves his wife wayy more
- 1 decade ago
Well, whats going on is not real love.
More like lust.
Why would he be still married to a woman for over 5 years and be seeing you?
He obviously doesn't love his wife, and he doesn't love you enough to divorce her or do anything about it.
- Princess JewelsLv 61 decade ago
It may not be 'just sex' but he isn't ever going to leave his wife for you. This is 5 years wasted. If your goal is to meet a man, fall in love, and get married yourself then GET OUT of the relationship. It is not healthy for you to expect anything more out of this.
- SurvivorLv 61 decade ago
a married man for 5 years?...If he's cheating on his own wife which says that he doesn't honor her, how do you honestly think he sees you? You're his toy. Let that married man go because you are at a dead end with him.
- 1 decade ago
There's a thing called women's intuition, if you already influenced in some way to think like that then it probably is. Just another case of men having their cake and eating it too. You probably don't want to hear that but its reality, some people just like to have choices, just like females and shoes.
- 1 decade ago
he might love you but hes still married obviously he still wants to be with his wife and if its been 5 years and he hasnt tried to leave his wife or make a commitment to you then it time you find someone who will.
Give him an ultimatum you or his wife? And then you'll know your answer! =)