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We kissed... and now it's weird.?
One night i went to my crush's house to watch a movie with him. Before I had to leave he said, "Can I kiss you?" and i said "yes." And then he said, "okay, but before i do, i just need you to know that i just got out of a relationship and i'm not looking for another one" i told him, "i know"... and then he kissed me.
Now he's being really weird, saying he feels guilty because that's not how my first kiss should've been because he should be able to give more. i told him i was fine and it was good he told me before.
But now he doesn't flirt with me like he used to and our conversations are all really forced.
What should I do?
13 Answers
- 1 decade ago
Well you know he's feeling guilty so that's out of the way. The best thing you could probably do right now is reassure him on how you feel. And don't force the conversation. And as for the flirting, you either have to give him time to not feel guilty, or try and flirt with him and see if he flirts back. Another thing is he could be trying to flirt wiht you, its just that you don't want him too and your missing it. Good luck, I hope this relationship works out for you. I hope what i have said will be helpful
- 1 decade ago
your conversations are forced because he feels guilty and he probly feels like an a** for what he did. It was good he told you before but to himself he might feel he used you.. cuz you werent going to get more than a kiss. Does he know you like him? maybe he likes you and feels bad that he cant give you more so he's spacing out til hes ready for a relationship.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well, I feel as if there is nothing you can really do. I guess he feels weird that he kissed you and he don't wanna date you, but you should just talk with him and find out the main problem tell him how you feel and hopefully you two can work it out.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well, it is a weird situation. I would just try to make conversation. If it doesn't work, that kind of sucks. I don't know really... it is really hard to get comfortable again. Give it time.
- Anonymous5 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
okay so first you go to his house again, then u make out with him and tell him to go out with u (DEMAND dont ask) then make out some more
then leave and take off ur shirt as u exit the door and run back inside and hump him
- 1 decade ago
you should tell him that things r getting weird, if he really iz a good bf, he would understand
- Anonymous1 decade ago
go and kiss him and say.. we are still friends right? and mess around with him
so how do you feel about us know?