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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

EX BF BOY DRAMA NEED UR HELP!!!! 10 POINTS?

after my ex and i broke up, its just been crazy between us. we've been up and down too much, like a rollercoaster. see, after we broke up, we still liked each other, we just didn't want to get back together because we didn't want to hurt each other's feelings again. but we txtd each other everyday, all day, 24/7!!!! but then we got into this huge fight cause i got jealous cause he was hangin with another girl, even though that girl has a bf of her own. i kept telling him i was jealous, i kept telling him i was hurt, but it just turned into a huge fight and he told me that we shouldn't txt anymore cause we're just gonna end up fighting. i can't stand not txting him:'( it hurts soooooo bad!!!! cause i still love him. so i gave it like 3 days, and i didnt talk to him. but then after i ***** take it anymore!!! so i txtd him and asked him if we could still be friends and he said "idk". im so sad!! but then we txtd later on and we were kinda cool, just using like one syllable for like each sentence but it seems like he doesnt wanna talk to me cause he never txts me anymore and he doesnt respond to mine that much. only every once in a while. should i even be this sad about him!?!? i miss him and all the good times we had. when we get back to school, what should i do!? go up to him or wait for him to come up to me!? or should i just not go up to him and see where it goes!?!?! plz i really need your help. thxx<3

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7 minutes ago

ohh the ***** (stars) in there is not a bad word. i meant to write "couldnt" oh and i will pick a BEST ANSWER:)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well i think you should just leave him alone and stop hurting and making a fool out of yourself.....You sound like a very nice girl ...so give it time and you will find a very nice guy......When you go back to school just leave him alone and pretend that you don't really notice him...Because you might go up and talk to him and he diss you in front of everyone....

    So for your own safety I think you should just focus on the important things and not allow this situation to stress you...

    New Year,,,,,,New dreams....focus on what is IMPORTANT....Have a happy new year.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hiiiii

    I suggest that you don't give up hope, but dont expect a relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. He is not into you like that anymore, because if he were, than you better believe that he would be texting you, probably trying to get together. But being friends would still work. When school starts up, act casual. Try to work it out and be friends, but dont overwhelm him. It's okay to be that sad!!! But when you are trying to stay friends, try to meet some new guys, Who knows, you could end up loving them to, and it is good to get some fresh people. haha. And maybe you won't fight with another guy :D that would be the best. Good luck!!!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    alright it seems like you are a little obsessed with this guy. he has the ball in his court now because you keep texting him which is an indicator that your more into him than he is into you. i do this sometimes with girls. like i wont text them when im a bit heated. after a few days if im still into them ill text back dont expect anything big... just like "hey" or "whats up" itll go on from there. and at school make him approach you first. dont tell him how you feel because this guy will prob take advantage of it in a bad way

  • 1 decade ago

    I know it hurts really bad now but it's best to try move you - It will feel better to be with someone thats wants to be with you and wants to text and talk to you - the more you contact this guy the more you stoke his ego... :/ Don't go up to him - best to just act like your over it - as i said if he is interested if will let you know. Read that book 'he's just not that into you' for some help :) Hope your feeling better soon :)

  • Well, its just texting. You're not even actually talking? Doesn't sound very serious. It may hurt, but you should probably forget about him. Think about the reason you broke up. If you started dating again, the same problem would most likely occur. People don't change..

  • 1 decade ago

    wow that sux but i understand but for some reason he doesnt want to be with u anymore cause when a dude stop texting you and stop even paying attention then that means that they are done they dont want you any more i mean when school starts back you should confirm if he actually wants to be kool with you or not tell him how you feel and if he says no i dont want anything to do with you then leave him alone and tell him to be straight up with you no hard feelings but YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND WHEN ITS NO HARD FEELING THAT MEANS YOU CANT HOLD A GRUDGE AND WANT TO KILL HIM AND GET JEALOUS CAUSE I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL BUT you have to let go hun if he doesnt want ya n e more plus FIND A HOTTER GUY AND MAYBE HE WILL GET JEALOUS...good luck girlie.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well it may sound kinda bad but this guy doesn't sound like he is worth all your trouble. Everyone deserves someone who appreciates them and wants to talk to them and spend time with them. But if you really do love this guy give him time. I'd say when you go back to school, give him some space, maybe let him see you talking to other guys. You never know, he may just come back to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    calm down, it's all gonna be all right

    if he is seeing others, he prob. doesn't want to have you as a girlfriend, it's OK take deep breathes go hang out with friends and try not to think about him so much, try getting another bf. dont change yourself and don't try to keep out of his way, but also don't get in his face

    say hi or nod your head think about it this way, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't what to be with you? calm down dont think about him there are soooo many more dudes out there! :) good luck and hope this helps a buch!

    Source(s): experience, and it works!
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Love has no room for jealousy. Honestly, if you were jealous at any point in time, you weren't in love.. you were being posessive.

    Chances are, you should back off for your own sake. Even if you miss him, all you're doing right now is trying to tie him down. If you really loved someone, you'd be wishing for their happiness. not your own in hoping for them to text you back. =/

    Source(s): experience from first relationship. Got over that once I realized that it was true.
  • 1 decade ago

    Just give him his space and stop txtin him. believe me if he still has feelings for you he'll start txtin you again. I know its the hardest thing in the world to do but you are after doing enough running.Don'tt smother him. He will come to you if its ment to be xxxxxx I hope this helps xxx

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