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Why is it hard to connect with someone?
I just need some advice. I come from an Indian background, so my family is hoping i find someone soon and marry. Im 33. I have gone on a lot of "coffee dates" with guys, but I can't seem to connect, or like someone. Is there something wrong with me? I am always told you know when the person is right for you. But why do I panic when I can tell he might like me, but i don't have the same feelings. Or, I find faults right away. I just want to think positive, and believe, that if I try, good things will come my way. It could be a self esteem issue, being pressured, ...i just don't want to mess up any opportunities...and i definatley do not want to relocate cities for an interest....my wish is that connect with someone who has similar intersests, dreams, etc....Im just confused...any suggestions?
4 Answers
- 1 decade ago
I would say that, this is something that you should put on hold.....Don't worry about love, you're still young. Just be sure that you can maintain some kind of social friendship with the people you have coffee dates with....Sometimes , you just need to have a good amount of time to figure it out. I say this because , even if you think he might be the perfect one for you, he may not really like you simply because you may not be his type.....I would also only go after people with likewise interest..
GOOD LUCK!!!
- 1 decade ago
My parents didn't get married until they were 35. I also know a guy whos parents didn't get married until they were both past forty I think. Just wait. God has the right plan for you and he's going to make it work. Those little feelings could just be God's way of saying this person isn't right. Just wait and keep up the small dates. You'll eventually run into someone who you can really get attached to.
- 1 decade ago
just try and get to know the guy before going on coffee dates. like exchange numbers, emails...stuff like that. dont rush to like meet up so soon...not saying that you are, but i think you know what i mean =]. just try and look at th positive things you find in the guy instead of all faults
- Bradly SLv 51 decade ago
The one you are supposed to be with isn't ready for you, yet. Once he has gotten to the point in his development that he is ready to be with you and travel along your path together, then you will meet him. And you will know it is him.
It might not be "THE one"; however, he will be the one you are meant to be with for that stretch of your travels through this life.
