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creepy boyfriend trouble help!?

okay.i woke up this morning to find my boyfriend rubbing my hand on his penis! i pretended to still be sleeping to see what he would do. then he started touching me. i pretended to sleep throughout this whole thing. hes the nicest guy ever and i guess his hormones just got the best of him. but this is creepy right? or am i over reacting? i really dont know what to do about this. should i say something to him about it? i'm mad and really creeped out. what would you do/think if you were in my position?

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  • 5 years ago

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  • Kent C
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Yep it's just a little creepy but not unusual. You can talk to him but if he doesn't know you were awake then you might want to leave it alone but look out for the future. If you choose to talk to him about it then do so. He needs to know that you don't like it. You were there and he could have woke you up and the both of you could have benefited from it. Don't be too harsh on him, I'm sure you're both young still and it could have a bad reaction for him and his future.

    Hope this helps, good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    haha

    honestly, this got a laugh out of me

    youre just overreacting a bit hun. guys do that sometimes. heck, ive woken up to my guy giving me oral. lol.

    just mention it to him and that you didnt particularly find it good. be easy on him. say something like

    "so, what were you doing this morning?" "*answer*" "well, it kind of surprised me this morning, but not exactly in a good way. i think we should wait to do that kind of stuff, especially when im sleeping."

    use "I" statements, NOT "you".

    So use:

    "I got quite a strange surprise this morning" INSTEAD OF "you scared me this morning."

    just ask him not to do it again, and try not to overthink it or overreact.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Haha! I wake up to my bf doing stuff all the time. They are trying to wake you in a seductive manner.

    He also wakes up with me doing things in turn.

    Relax, quit equating sex with bad things.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No you're not over reacting that is just plain creepy. I understand he's a nice guy but there are plenty of nice guys out there. Sorry to say but your boyfriend's very strange.Either talk to him about it and tell him you don't want him doing that or dump him and find another *nice guy*.

    BTW: Do not listen to those two sluts beneath me that is soooo not normal. If you respect yourself and your body you wouldn't approve of that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    bring it up to him!

    ask him wats on his mind...

    then ask him if he wants to have sex...

    if he does and you dont want to tell him to wait..

    and tell him not to do that because it makes you think the wrong thing of him!

    you have to stand up and tell him the truth!

    Source(s): me and my bf
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    that is creepy ... i can get the part where he was touching you .. maybe he wanted some ... but for him making you touch him while u sleep is CREEPY. what a sicko.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    maybe he wants to be a little more physical with u. give it a try!

  • That is really bad! He practically, no he actually molested you! What I think you should do: Ask him nicely *You would never do anything to me without me knowing sweety?* depending on his answer, CONFRONT HIS MOLESTING A*SS!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I would talk with him and figure out what was going on. Yes, it is a bit creepy or odd rather. Just talk with him.

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