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confused with girls and guys?

ok so im not gay but when I was at my friends house and lets just say we got really really close and I sort of like her like that and we agreed that we werent gay and I keep dreeming about it with her! and I dont want to be known as a gay or bi person I mean I still love guys! and still date them and stuff

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Relax, you're a great, loving and caring person. You were expressing your feelings and great energy and emotions came up. That's cool. You may feel just a bit of guilt and excitement but anyone would. It just means you're close to her. Everyone should be like you. The little bit of guilt you feel keeps your mind on it because you don't fully understand what happened. Were your thoughts go your emotions follow. As you finish processing these feelings you attention will move on to other things. Don't be hard on yourself and be happy that you have such a great friend.

  • 1 decade ago

    Definately bi-curious so don't hyperventilate. Everyone has one of these moments in their life so you know better late then never. x

  • 1 decade ago

    ifyou keep dreaming about her then you DO like girls and if you still ike men too then youre bisex so you cant just shut it down from your life even if you dont want to be gay (thats what coming out feelis like)

    i dunno i would try other girls to see if you keep dreaming about them too...

    good luck :)

    or maybe youre just in experimentation phase : )

    PS if you really like your friend and she doesnt want to be gay (not that she could control it ) then dont tell her - shed totallly freak out..

    PEACE happy new year : )

    JAY : )

  • 1 decade ago

    Your making a lot out of nothing.

    If you can honestly tell your self you had no sexual attraction for her you can claim straight. If you were sexually attracted, your at a minimum bi.

    If you want to go through life denying your sexual attraction, then so be it.

    Its your loss not mine.

  • 1 decade ago

    well sounds to me that your mind is telling you you're bisexual, but you refuse to kinda admit it. Just let it play out, and see how your emotions and feeling towards her evolve.

    Hope that helped! =]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You're bi-curious. There's nothing wrong with that.

  • Ell
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You sound too young to be worrying about this. Calm down.

    Do you like girls the same way you like guys? Can you see yourself dating or marrying a girl? Unless you think yes, then you're straight.

  • your bi

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