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Faith
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Faith asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Have u ever been too good 2 someone who's been too bad 2 u? yet u can't forget dat person & go on with ur life?

Have u ever been too good 2 some relative who's been toooooooooo bad 2 u for years? yet u can't forget about that person or what he/she did & go on with ur life... although everyone is telling u to, but u just can't forget the good times... and still dream you could get togther again and be friends... or probably u don't wanna believe or feel you've really been wronged and fooled all that time.. without any guilt!!!

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    You cannot change other people, you can only change the way you react to them. You should not feel any guilt by moving on without this person in your life. if you choose to give them another chance later in life that is fine but be very cautious. Obviously they have some great pain and issues and need to work on them.

  • 1 decade ago

    You know I'm going through the same thing also....But I had to let it go and we were sooo close and something happened last year to where he turned shady towards me...don't know why???? But I moved on and let the Lord take care of this...Maybe The relative needs some space and you just the person to give it to him/her. What else can you do...When birthday comes up or any holiday hereafter send something special to let them know you still think of them and that they are always in your heart no matter if you guys don't talk...That should send the message of Love unconditional. I have to try that to...I got to practice what I preach too. It's hard but swallow the pride and do it and go on with our lives right?

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    at first, there is now a spell verify determination. Please use it. additionally, numbers do no longer commerce as words. single letters do no longer function as words the two. As on your question, in case you and your husband have the awareness that it is a monogamous dating and not an 'open' dating, then "NO!!!!" you ought to no longer screw around with yet another guy. in case you're unhappy, stop the marriage or seek for counseling. in any different case, you're able to finally end up in deeper doo-doo while (and that i do advise while) your husband properly-knownshows out appropriate to the infidelity. develop up. you chosen the marriage. stay with it or end it. end of tale.

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