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meeting girls what the best way?

i can be shy sometimes but that's a good thing. what the best way to meet a girl but i don't get out much. Girl help and guys

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Being shy is a bad thing for meeting girls. Girls want dominant, confident men, that are able to express themselves freely. Not getting out is also a problem. Get out of your house and meet girls even if you have to go alone. If you keep doing the same thing over and over you'll get the same result, so it's time for a change.

  • 1 decade ago

    Start by NOT being shy. Chicks dig confidence--it's a must have. That's not to say you can't be reserved. Being quiet and reserved can show you're calm and well-collected. On the flip side, being outgoing, outlandish, and downright cocky at times can get a girl going. Don't simply "put yourself out there" as seems to be the common suggestion--you have to do it with purpose and learn from your mistakes. Start small--say "Hi" to every girl--regardless of age, race, color, or creed, even if you don't find them attractive. Stand tall and erect and look the girl directly in the eye, even holding eye contact just a tad longer than what might be comfortable. This will push you beyond your existing limits of comfort and will allow you to transition into the next step of being "flirtatious". While the step from simply saying "Hi" to everyone to flirting with girls that you find attractive may seem a bit intimidating, it will actually become quite easy as long as you are consistent. You're confidence will naturally become stronger, and this confidence will be exuded in a non-verbal manner--something women are extremely keen to pick up on. The more you do it, the better you'll get, the better you get, the more you'll be able to read opportunities and react appropriately. And one thing to keep in mind when flirting--change her mood, not her mind. In other words, if she's not responding in the way you'd like, don't try to talk her into doing so--do something that will change her current mood. Make her laugh, make her think, make her wonder. Oh, and get out more. Women make up like 52% of the global population. A lack of options should not be an issue. The grocery, gym, coffee shop, McDonalds, you name it, girls will more than likely be there. While you may not meet the one there, these are perfect venues to build you confidence that can carry over to every other interaction you have with a girl, which in turn, will allow you to meet more of them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm, try to get out and meet a girl. I think girls love confidence but not tooo cocky haha. If you randomly spoke to a girl she would like that you had the courage and interest to talk to her. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there and talk to that girl you always thought was cute, because chances are she likes you too.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your friends should no some ladies, and could introduce you to whom they think would match up with you. Internet dating if nothing else.

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