I am so confused please tell me what to do?

just tell her clearly that if she respcts you, and your values, then she will find her own place to live. if she loves you then she wouldn't pull this crap in the first place.

Sounds like she is pushing you too much.........pushing for answers why you don't want to go farther sexually............and pushing to move in with you when it will not be easy to accomplish and disrupt your life. Do you want her to move in with you? The harder question......do you love her enough to make such a commitment?

My first impression is she is manipulative and controlling. She is not respecting your desires or wishes and is pushing too much despite your expression of what you want. What do you think she will be like once she moves in? Why is she moving to the same city as you? Does she have a job there or going to college; or is she just looking to get you into a situation she wants?

It is not really what your parents want, but what you want. If your parents love you they will stand by you, but have a right to their opinion too and express it.

Send me a message if you want to talk about this more.

cant she just move in with u and your friend as another sharer and pay her own way

theat way u will all be just house mates

wel tel ur ex class mate that she better respect your accept your desiciion to go further, or you might just have to end things. I may know wat your going through, my mum would probably disown me if anything like that heppened.

Best of Luck.