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Alright. So i used to be in this group of friends. but then they started to outcast me and bully me. like horribly mean, but i had found a friend. well call her L. we started getting along and were best friends until this 3 day trip we had to take for school. we got in a huge fight. and then i had been becoming friends with a girl well call V. me and V became great friends and me and L made up. ind of. but me and L got in another fight and V was involved. then L and V became friends again which i hated. but now i dont really have either of them because V got mad at me for giving her advice. i feel so alone... please help me. what do i do!

Update:

I know your gonna say make new friends... but i go to a really small school so im eaither knowing them or hating them.

Update 2:

I can't use first names because sometimes they come on here.

қαiτlуηツ [r.ı.ρ мεg] · Accepted Answer

Sometimes being on your own isn't as bad as you may think.
You obviously need to find some friends that you won't fight with. I mean, every group of friends have their fights, but still.
Try and make up with L and V. If they don't make up with you, then that's immature and you need to move on.
Good luck.

tkquestion · Answer

A common thread I see in all this is, you got in fight with someone soon after meeting.  What starts all these fights?  I can see there will be disagreements, but fights?  

Basically, you kept getting into arguments and at the end, you've lost all friends.

Also, I see you try to give someone advise and the other person got mad.  What exactly did you tell her?  Was the opinion asked or did you volunteer it when it wasn't your business to do so?

How about looking back at all these fights and see what started it, if there were anything you could have done to prevent the fights in the first place, and start over?  There aren't a lot of times where sincere apology won't work.  Have you tried that?

Proud mommy of 2 · Answer

Then i would make friends with a, b and c...


I honestly do not remember this much drama when i was in school. And i didn't have to go through that many friends either...


Why did you hate that L and V were becoming friends? Was there a bit of jealousy there?? 

Why can't U, L and V not all be friends together? 

So if V got mad at you then what is wrong with L.? 

Honestly, just simply be friends, friends get mad with eachother, that is what happens, just forget about the silliness and move on.

ρωєєтιιвαвє ιѕ α υgℓу υѕєяиαмє✿ · Answer

Make new friends.

Obviously they aren't good friends. Somewhere in life you would find bad friends.

YouveGotAnswers · Answer

be friends with C.

or

try hanging out with L more, then start hanging out as the three of you. V should soon forgive you.

? · Answer

Well, you have to stop fighting over petty bullshit. Make up with em' or live without em' SIMPLE.

gone · Answer

apologize to both of them
admit your mistakes

Anonymous · Answer

say your sorry. doesn't work? find new friends. they aren't right for you.

Anonymous · Answer

OK...nothing you can do til they come around.

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