Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and the Yahoo Answers website is now in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.
Trending News
ok, i really need everyones advice... please...?
i live with my girlfriend and some one she use to see at one point lives close by the house. she ran into him and he said hi to her, and were talking for a bit..... (this is what gets to me) he told her to stop by one of these days if she wanted too... ok i am not mad that they talked because its understandable that one day your going to run into your ex, but what pisses me off is that he tells her to stop by. iam not mad at her either because she told me right away........... what should i do? should i confront him and tell him what the hell, dont be inviting my girl to your house? need your hosest advise.... thanks..
5 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think you should talk to her about it first, and see what she says. I'm sure she's not going to actually go over to his house, especially if she told you about what happened right away ! That shows that she's not trying to hide anything from you and she cares =) talk to her & ask her what you both should do, either ignore him or tell him in someway that it's not appropriate for him to ask her to "stop by", it would probably be best if she was the one to tell him while you were around. Good luck !*
- Dark AngelLv 61 decade ago
Keep a cool head, or as somene once said, "Wait to worry." His comment may have been only politeness. He most likely does not believe she will ever stop by. Trust your girlfriend to do the right thing. Keep the other guy out of the picture. If you see him, a simple hello will suffice. There is no need to be friendly or hostile toward him.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
invite yourself :)
i would have been like "that's great honey, we can go and also invite him over our house too.."
show up with her and be super xtra nice with him, if he was gonna try to get her alone, you'll piss him off and shell be happy with u because u show no jealousy at all :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i don't know if your girl would like that because it might seem like you're being too possessive. then just chill and tell her calmly that it bothered you.
but if she likes you being all tough and possessive, then yeah confront of him. still talk to her about it first.