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Would You Let Circumstances Dictate Your Heart or Would You Let Your Heart Dictate Your Destiny?

If you were in love, deeply in love. But your children insisted that you not see someone that you loved; and you knew that this would totally crush the person you love, would you let those circumstances dictate your heart or would you let your heart dictate your destiny? And if you chose to go with destiny, wouldn't you work hard to find a way to reconcile everything and make it work?

And if you failed to try to fight for the one you love, what would that make you feel like?

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  • Poppy
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    Since when did children get to make the rules?

  • 5 years ago

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Depends on my children's reasons and how old they were. If they were young and just didn't want a replacement daddy then I would blow them off and help them through it. If they were scared of the other man, didn't like him for a valid reason then I would dump the guy for my children. Sometimes women are blinded by love and don't see that the guy could be a monster to the kids. Communicate with them and find out why.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If your children are just kids, you should not always listen to them cos quite often kids don't know whats good for them and their parents.

  • 1 decade ago

    That all sounds very emo... so I'd listen to your kids, who are probably thinking lots more clearly than you are.

    And maybe talking to a professional 3rd party wouldn't hurt, either.

    Good luck, Sweetie.

    xoxoxo

  • 1 decade ago

    How old are your children? Why don't your children like your new bf/gf? I need more insight to this question before I can answer...

  • 1 decade ago

    The second one. Definitely.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I got lost and confused the moment I saw the word "heart"...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If your children are adults I would trust them. Your children care about you and they want you to be happy and safe.

  • 1 decade ago

    There's no such thing as destiny nor fate. It can all be influenced.

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