i have a question about vibrators..help please.?

The Adam and Eve website has tons of vibrators that include customer reviews and popularity. That is the best place to start.

I agree, a softer more flexible vibrator would be nice. My first one was solid and hard, and I hated using it sometimes because it was too hard.

It depends on your personal preferences, you may find that a cheap one hits the spot for you where a top-of-the-range super expensive one does not.

Some worth looking at:

Rabbit - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2613

Classic - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7

Quiet - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6423

G-Spot - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14799

Clit vibe - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14504

Je Joue rechargeable - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15410

Mains powered (super strong vibes) - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1993

Silcone (soft feel) - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16390

I've listed some expensive ones but you can buy basic vibrators from £3 if you want to try one out before you start splashing out serious money.

Experiment for yourself but anything that vibrates is great.

I personally like one that is more rubber and flexible. When it's a hard, solid one, it seems to hurt more.

my mum bought me a soft latex one for my birthday this year they are probly the best ones to buy