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I feel so sad. I was doing some school work on my boyfriends computer and I found porn sites.?

I asked him if he had been watching porn and he told me no. Later that day when he was upstairs I went through the history and found the exact dates he had been watching... it had been all through that week. He knew BEFORE he watched it I did not want him too. I watched most of the videos he watched. I felt so sick and heartbroken. I sobbed uncontrollably. I had to drag it out of him. And he swears he wont do it again and gets really mad whenever I try to tell him how upset it makes me. What should I do? I know he loves me. I just feel really depressed like hes not attracted to me

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  • xK
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    That's normal. Guys need visual stimulation to masturbate, and porn provides that. Let's face it, you can't be there every single time he gets the urge (which, if he's a normal guy, is quite often!) and he needs something.

    I think you'd be more heartbroken if they were pictures of your best friend or people you knew, or random girls he friended on Facebook. So take this in stride. It's women he doesn't know, will never know, and has no interested in dating. They're just boobs and a vagina to him, trust me.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Most guys look at porn.That's a fact of life.Don't get upset over that.He's with you and loves you so that's all that matters.Believe me 99% of guys check porn when they get the chance.

  • 1 decade ago

    At first I felt just like you. I mean emotional to that degree. and i would still get emotional and jealous and mad if i found him watching porn. BUT its a very common thing.

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