What is going on with my ex...?

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So here's all the major details about the break up.
-I broke up with him
-We dated for 4 months give or take
-I broke up with him this last september
-Until the incident i describe, i haven't talked to him since that time

So i sent him a message asking if he still had any of my stuff and he said he'd been trying to find a way to get it to me. I was okay with that answer and then he suddenly sent me a text asking how I'd been. For the next couple days he seems really eager to talk to me and sometimes even flirts. The weird thing is that he has only initiated one conversation and I've done the rest,but it doesn't seem like he doesn't want to talk to me because he carries out a conversation with me until I have to go or fall asleep.

What's going on with him?Does he still like me or is he just being overly polite

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Run, my friend, run as fast as you can.  Save yourself.  There is a reason he is your ex and the holidays tend to make everybody sad and lonely, hence why I decided to get online again since I never sleep.

The reason I said run is because although this may sound crazy, I had the same situation but it's lasted 5 years.  You never really let go and it sucks and it hurts but save yourself the time and pain.  I don't know if this will help you and I'm sorry if it hurts but if you haven't had your stuff for 4 months you most likely don't need it or have been ok without it.  He started a conversation and you seem to have to keep them going.  

My ex and I are soul-mates even though it sounds crazy, we can't be together anymore because of the back and fourth and it's cost us 5 years of our lives.  So do yourself a favor and run with your dignity.

I had another friend, my best friend from high school find me and he did the same thing, lifted me up with great conversations and texting. We helped each other through our bad relationship issues  and then he just disappeared.  Men are just as mixed up emotionally as we can be so if you are ok without him or have been for 4 months stay strong and don't let the holidays get to you.  Stay strong. Maybe donate time at a shelter or visit people in the hospital that have no family or friends, there are good people out there.  Don't let him get you down.  Sorry if this was not what you wanted to hear or if it doesnt help. Trust me, they are ex's for a reason, it just hurts in the process of healing. You will be ok, Happy Holidays.

Anonymous · Answer

why did you break up with him if you care?

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