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help me! im stuck between these two. im confused.?

i am 16 now. when i was 14, i really liked this guy. i had a secret crush on him. we both were in the same class. me and my friends and he and his friends used to hang out. but me and him did'nt talk much.we used to say hi to each other and chat with our friends and jokes togethor and we had a lot of fun. i talked a lot to all others well but i talked to him too, but i dont know i was nervous taking to him. we went camping 2 years ago before christmas and it was fun. we were totally having fun. singing, dancing, spin the bottle and stuff. and accidentally me and him had an eye contact. it was like we were looking at each other in the eyes.i looked away. and after the camp, the next thing was my dad got transfered and we moved to another city. it was emotional. leaving my best friends and the person i love.

and after 2 years...now. week ago, the guy i liked a lot joined my college. it was surprising. we recognised each other.(friendship)

and yesterday was shocking as well as surprising. he LIKES me too. he liked me 2 years ago and he still likes me. he asked me out. but i already have a boyfrend. he doesnt know i have a bf.

i have decided to break up with my bf cuz i think i like this guy more than my bf. i thinks it the right decision.i dont want to hurt both of them. i guess my bf will understand but i am not quite sure though.

i need advice. what should i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Be friends with the guy you used 2 like see if hes the same person. People change, dont through away something good.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What you do not want to do is go out with this guy straight after you leave ur current bf, Imagine if he did that too you, how horrible youd feel. My opinionis that you dont like this current guy that much anyway, Id leave him simply for that reason and then try and get to know this other guy a little more before getting into a relationship

    sorry not much help lol

    Goodluck

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    she doesnt choose her friends hating her by way of fact of a guy. on condition that she didnt understand you very properly and it wasnt very intense, she is status back and form of letting it pass. she is familiar with she could particularly save a friendship with the two one among you different than dropping her terrific chum over a guy. Ask her how she surely feels and pass with the help of that. it could make issues plenty extra trouble-free in case you realize for particular. if she doesnt such as you incredibly anymore, enable it pass or you will merely go through. additionally communicate over with alexie approximately how she feels with regard to the completed subject. wish this helps and stable success

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