Ok so I'm not quite sure. Need lesbian advice?

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Ok so I work with this girl that I have a major crush on. I've been working there for about 2 months. We both know that one another is lesbian. Well the other day I worked with her she kept like teasing me and joking around and what not. Also she would go out on cig breaks with me too. We talk a good bit at work I would say. We probably conversate the most together than anyone else. She kept joking around about how she wanted to just randomly push me, and I said if she did I'd push her back. She said it could be like this "secrect" thing we could have. I feel like maybe she was hinting at something.Since it wasn't busy that day I decided to make something stupid and small out of paper and gave it to her, claiming it was her gift for chirstmas. Then a little while later she drew a little person smiling and gave it to me. Then today we worked together again and I was organizing some things (retail job) and ironically it was right next to where she was working and she reaches over and messes it all up. I wasn't really mad, but I joked about how I was going hate her til the end of the week. She told me to give her 27 mins haha and she would redeam herself. So by the time 27 mins rolls by she made me a note appologizing for messing up my hard work haha and she drew me a cake. I told her I couldn't hate her anymore. Also when I'll be standing somewhere shell come stand beside me. Now it gets a little more complicated. She has a girlfriend who she always complains about. She mentioned how they are on and off again a lot. She makes it seem like her girlfriend is really mean to her. I really don't know if she is into me because she has a gf right now. I really like want to flirt with her more but that's hard to do at work and I'm always too nervous to ask her if she wants coffee or something because of fear of rejection and what shed think of me as person since she has a gf.

A Dancing Flame · Accepted Answer

That sounds like a lot of flirting and sounds like you two really click. Just because she does have a girlfriend does not mean she can't have some sort of feelings for you. You should work up the courage and ask her if she'd like to hangout sometime. Go to the mall or anything like that. If she does accept then I'd suggest you hint around more that you have feelings for her. You two sound like you'd be cute for eachother! You shouldn't let her get away; Don't wonder later on what could have been.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, there's nothing that you CAN do about it, if she is really right about her sexual "preference". However, Most young girls go through a "stage" at that age, where they seem to think that they are bisexual/lesbian. I did, as did a few other younger girls that I know. Don't worry too much. It may pass. But, even if she is lesbian, be sure to stay there for her, and support her with her decisions. I, personally, wouldn't try to talk her out of it, because she may get angry with you.

Anonymous · Answer

I would go for it! She's obviously flirting pretty hard with you! Instead of coffee, though, maybe it would be a good idea to do something more active, where you can be really flirty without the risk of awkward conversation... something like a concert or some kind of event or something. If you know of something she really likes to do, it might make it easier to ask her out (like, "Hey, I need to go out. Let's go see that band you like!").

Betty · Answer

you can ask her to hang out outside of work without it being a date or telling her that you're interested. what i like to do with the girls i like is just make it really obvious that i'm into them without telling them at all so that they definitely know, and then i just work with how they react to knowing that. it's easier that talking about it. haha. but she sounds interested in you, regardless of the girlfriend. go for it, my friend.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd just talk to her about it. Thats the only way to figure anything out.

Simon&#39;s Cat · Answer

Sounds pretty flirty to me, why don't you just ask her. she might have feelings for you. Never know till you ask. 

Good luck.

? · Answer

you should ask her cuz maybe she does has feeligns for you and she might never tell you just because u were too scared. sumtimes we got to take risks on life nd its time for u to take on. 
well i hope i helped u:)

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