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? asked in Beauty & StyleHair · 1 decade ago

when my hair is straight my f is all over me but when i have my hair curly he doesnt care?

ok ever since i dyed my hair for my birthday and got a new straightener... mi bf is all over me when i have my hair straightened but when i have my hair natually curly and is too lazy to straighten it my bf tends to fight with me and call mea slutt or a whore..... i mean my bf ws nvr like this i mean i use to to always have my hair curly he would sit and play with my hair but now when i straighten it he like turns me on but when we both get to the point of sex his phone rings or he gets a txt and of corse like all guys he stips and runs over to his phone and when he gets dne with the phone i lost it wat does this mean????? what should i do???

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    Break up with him!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It sounds like you're over-reacting. It might all just be in your head. If your hair still looks good when it's curly, and if he's a normal guy, he won't care about the difference.

    If he really does treat you differently based on your hairstyle, all I'll say is that he's shallow. Any guy who cares more about how a girl looks than her personality isn't deserving of her.

  • 1 decade ago

    it could just be that he's extra happy because he knows you're putting effort into looking nice for him when you straighten your hair. from this, he can interpret that you want to look good for him and that you really want to spend time on looking good for him and you really care for him.

    about his phone...hm...that's really a problem, isn't it. maybe you should talk to him about it. like even my friend doesn't always put his phone first. i mean, he use to...he's like a social butterfly! but then i complained...not really complained but more like said that he was really popular, then he started ignoring all texts and calls except when i'm sleeping or otherwise occupied. i mean, if a friend is like that, then shouldn't a bf be more so all about you and the time you guys are together, than care more about his friends...

    talk to him.

    good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    WELL if you really think theres hope for dis guy just.....straighten it for him or maybe you guys could try talkin about it and figuiring wats up..if hes actully sayin that sht to you like slut whore i would dump him fast..guys needa respect there girls and if he treats u dependin on ur hair f him!! get a guy who can u respect you nooooooo matter what!!

  • Amaira
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Uh not all guys do that. My guy never does that. If his phone rings it is ignored.

    You should dump him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dump him

  • 1 decade ago

    wow really! god sounds like you should dump him. is he like always around girls maybe he is cheating. just dump him

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to him.. and if he doesnt understand break up with him

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