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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

What made me start liking a different type of girl?

My whole life i have dated the tall, hot, skinny and stuck up gold digging b****es. All in their 20s. This is the only type of woman i was ever attracted to. None of these girls really cared about me and i always got hurt. I used to be a really nice guy and now i have become somewhat of a jerk to women. Anyways there's a girl i have been sleeping with as a friend with benefits for a year. She is 31. Im 28. The girl is kind of a slut but she is a sweetheart. Yesterday she made my best female friend a cake for her birthday. It was really nice of her. It made me fall for her. What made me change to the shorter, still attractive but older woman? What made me like a different type of girl for once?

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  • 1 decade ago

    In short? You've grown up. You're tired of all the drama those other girls bring, and the lack of emotional connection. You found a woman you trust (cause you're already FWB), who evidently either likes you or your friend enough to bake her a cake. It shows she's also compassionate about other peoples feelings. I've frequently dated girls older than me. I'm only 24 now, and never dated someone 3 years older, but the girl I'm dating now is 2 years older. You also know your FWB isn't into a bunch of drama because lots of girls can't do the FWB thing without causing a bunch of drama.

    I'd say get over yourself and give this girl a serious shot. So what if she's a little shorter, a little older, and has an experienced past?

  • 1 decade ago

    She did something for you that no one has ever done for you before and it came from the heart. That perspective softens us in a good way, provided we will keep that edgy part of us~~the source of our passion.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because you're looking past looks and seeing personality a lot more. Good for you!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    let me tell ya im rlly sorry for saying this you are sort of a man whore...

    but..... likeing this other girl may be telling you something... go with it tell her you like her alot and not just for the sex.

    you might be suprised

  • 1 decade ago

    just the fact that she is a sweetheart and knowing that she will probably not break your heart

  • 1 decade ago

    you answered your own question. "None of these girls really cared about me and i always got hurt."

  • 09 _
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i guess you became a little less shallow. the older you get, the less shallow you can be....

  • 1 decade ago

    sometimes we dont always know we like something different until we try it.

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