i need some advice. GUYS ONLY!!!!?

Umm I can't understand the language of woman, but here's some advice.

Take interest in the things that interest him, (which actually goes against be yourself) but really that's the most you should do. You don't want a boyfriend that likes the opposite of what you like. If you can't get him, move on. I'm pretty sure out of the several billion people on this planet you'll find someone.

well I'm not a guy but i will answer your question...as a woman who has "been there done that".....I know it seems important now, but trust me, later on in life you will look back at yourself and laugh.....

at your age, dating someone that much older than you is likely inappropriate since you will have nothing in common.....I have dated older men, and my boyfriend whom I live with now is 5 years older than me (I turned 30 yesterday)....

ask yourself:

what is it that i like about this person? is it just physical or do i like him for who he is?

what do we have in common?

what do i want out of this relationship?

if you have only talked once, what makes you think that a relationship with this boy would work?

just some things you need to think about for yourself....see, i never really dated at your age, i had no use for boys...but then i was always (and still am) "one of the guys".....try being friends first ;-) and take it from there....that's how my boyfriend and I started....and it's been 7 years

good for one, identity say youve acquired the larger finish of the deal being a lady and all, considering the fact that the man is ordinarily the one who has to fairly fear approximately impressing the lady with how he talks and acts. The ladies personally must do much less, considering the fact that there now not anticipated to be the innitiators of some thing envolving assembly and speakme to the reverse intercourse. So you must be a little bit extra pressure unfastened realizing that its extra on him to try this stuff. Though, you'll be able to and must for those who wish to begin a convo, why now not, there truthfully are a ton of shy men in the market that don't seem to be innitially inclined to head out of there strategy to speak to a lady that they prefer, so with that during brain opt for it. the query of telling a man (or hinting) that your keen on him isn't fairly my talents. Because i've the identical challenge of displaying a lady i really like them, so. The much less you suppose approximately it, and the extra you simply permit it occur the extra matters are going to paintings. Go along with your instincts on what you must do!

There are many questions why when you see some “not” so pretty women holding hands with very attractive and passionate men. Did they apply some witchcraft? Did they pay him? How did she do it? Well, catching the man of your dreams can be a little challenging especially if the pointers below are not natural to you or you’re a drama, self-centered queen. When you do these pointers and apply this in your life, you’ll catch and win his heart. Make sure that you use this for your clean intentions and not to play with men’s heart.

a.) Be confident – confidence is very attractive. When you are confidence of yourself and what you have you tend to be comfortable to be around. Don’t gossip. Gossiping is a verbal defense mechanism of girls who are insecure of themselves. They try to eliminate this insecurities by trying to gossip for the other girls who has the qualities they like but are not with them. Confident woman doesn’t gossip because she is very comfortable of what she is.

b.) Be an island – do not need a man to be happy. If you are needy you scare a man because a man doesn’t want to do all the effort just to raise the sun in your mornings. You have to feel satisfied about yourself and be emotionally stable. Don’t try to catch the guy in the neck, you’re a woman not a stalker. Give him freedom he needs. A man who has a very sufficient, fun, confident girlfriend waiting for him from his basketball game rushes fast to see the girl than a man who’s girl is always being needy and interrogating and suspecting like cops. They would bail out.

c.) Fix your life before catching a man – you have to repair all excess baggage or unfinished business before you want to catch the man of your dreams. This includes finishing bad relationships and letting them go. You don’t want a rebound relationship, you want a good relationship with compassion and commitment.

d.) Be hygienic – brush and floss your teeth, take a bath, apply lotion and perfume. A woman’s scent is very irresistible to men so you have to add the attractiveness by taking good care of yourself.

e.) Smile – you don’t know who is falling in love with your smile. So increase your charm by smiling and not frowning. Frowning is like denoting you are depressed woman and who wants to be with a depressed woman?

f.) Intelligence – it is very important to carry out a great and catching conversation. If you think you’re like a dumb blonde – do a little review in the internet about things you thing you are week. Intelligent women are very attractive and you catch an intelligent man as well. Men think that dumb women are easy to get, easy to forget and needy type of women. They want challenges and a silly woman cannot create that challenge.

g.) Respect and take care of the man – don’t be a biyotch. Not because you are pretty and all that you treat men poorly. You should treat them with respect and accept their ideas and just let go of those things that you think displease you. Don’t emasculate them.

h.) Don’t take too much nudge to please them –just be who you are; if you think some men are hard to please then let them go and find another guy. There are plenty of fishes in the sea and those guys who are very hard to please or very phony they doesn’t deserve a woman like you.

i.) Respect yourself – pass the first date test “ that is with no sex”. This is the rule of the thumb. If you have sex on the first date, a man will not take you seriously because it will come to his brain that the act is usual and normal to you and you had sex with many guys. Respect yourself by limiting yourself to what is righteous.

If I were a junior, 8th grade would be too young for me.

You cant MAKE someone like you. Just get to each other well. If does like you.. good. If he doesnt, I'm sorry, but you have to move on. Good Luck :)

its not really possible unless your like 18 to date older guys.

The best thing you can do is flirt with him and show that you like him.

think about it it would be like you going out with a 5th grader

I am sorry, you're much too young for him. I doubt he'll go out with you.