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laina
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laina asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

why did he finish so early?

my bf and i had sex today. twice. the first time it only last, no joke, a minute. it's never happened before. usually we go for 15 minutes at least. so then we decided to do it again, an hour or so later. and the same thing happened. he feels really bad about it. how can i make him feel better and fix this problem?

Update:

i told him it wasnt a big deal but he wasnt a big deal but he was still upset. we ended up having sex again anyway and it still lasted like 2 minutes....

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  • 1 decade ago
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    he might be tired or have a lot on his mind.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah, ***** are odd like that for some reason.

    Usually if a guy (well...if I) cums too quick the first time, then its ok because the second time will be all the longer for it.

    But not always...

    I had sex last week and I thought I'd last quite long because I had secretly masturbated 15 minutes previous, but somehow it was all over in less than 5 minutes..?

    I felt bad too ;( Tell r bf that Joey emphasises.

  • 1 decade ago

    Happened to me at the start of a sexual relationship. Don't worry, he may have been too excited or may have been nervous. Just tell him that you can't wait to have more sex because the more you two do it, the better it will get since you are learning each other and what to do and what not to do.

    It could also help if the sex isn't anticipated if that makes sense. Sometimes guys can think too much about the upcoming event and psych themselves out... just be reassuring and promise a better next time.

  • 1 decade ago

    This is so common and happens to lots of men from time to time. Sometimes it's just over excitement, or because he hasn't had sex/masturbated for a while. Sometimes there is no explanation at all. Sex could be back to normal by tomorrow and you'll wonder what all the fuss is about.

    Make him feel better by not making a big deal about it and if he asks if you're disappointed, just tell him it doesn't bother you and there is plenty of time to have lots more sex.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Might be he was in a hurry to go somewhere or felt pressure from you to perform and he really wasn't into it.

    It happens sometimes.

  • 1 decade ago

    Simply tell him it isn't a problem, chances are he was (is) just exceptionally horny today. Offer him up another round or two!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Whenever you have sex, squeeze his dick so tight nothing can come out.

    Source(s): What my mom used to do.
  • 1 decade ago

    suck the top of his dick and let him *** on ur face

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