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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

how do i tell my boyfriend in a polite way...?

my boyfriends father asked to stay with us for a WEEK at thanksgiving and we said yes no problem. He stayed for the week and left as scheduled with no problems. Well 2 days later he showed up again. Not asking to stay @ our home or anything like that. It is now 3 weeks later and he is still here. I need to tell my boyfriend in a polite way that it is time for him to leave. My boyfriend allows his father to walk all over him in every possible way and NEVER says anything to anyone but me about it. Anyone got any suggestions??? Additionally, we have another baby due in about a month. I simply cannot deal with it anymore!

Update:

I also am not currently working and i pay no bills, he supports me as well as my son that isnt his.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Explain to him that even though that may be his father, you feel as if he overstayed his welcome and should leave. Tell him that with the new baby coming, the house is going to be hectic already and that an extra adult person is going to be in the way of caring for the new baby and settling in. Tell him to stand up to him and be a man. This is YOUR house too and you have every right to have a say in this.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just sit him down and tell him. Dont be rude and stay calm. its all you really can do hun. i hope everything works out. sorry

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