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When I lost my virginity I was 17, but the guy I lost it to I knew for about two years before we even started dating. Personally I was glad I lost it to him, but I still wish I waited until marriage because I am currently dating a new guy whom I love and can see myself growing old with this guy. Also, you can never truly know if you are ready to have sex, because one moment you could be ready then the next you could not want to have it. I am currently 19 years old, and I do have sex with the guy I am dating now. I guess the point it don't feel pressured or eager to have sex, because it can affect your relationship. When you lose your virginity you create a bond with the guy you lost it to, not on purpose, but it is something you can never share with anyone else so there is an attachment there. If this is just a puppy love thing then I say don't have sex but wait, wait until you are possibly around my age even though I still stay I am too young to be having sex. Just remember all of the problems that happen if you are not safe.

I had just turned 20. I lost it to my husband and it was the best. I love him so much. We didn't have to worry about a pregnancy or anything because we were married.

It was not as crazy/great/whatever as all the hype. I don't think I really bled or felt pain at all. Sex right now is maybe 3% of our relationship. It's wonderful as a way to get closer to each other but it's not the focus all the time.

Wait until you feel 100% ready because it does change your responsibilities. You have to think about pregnancy (which CAN occur no matter what birth control you're on), yorur partners needs, and your emotional health. Sex affects you in a lot of ways from thoughts to emotions.

If you're truly ready it will be a great experience.

I'm still a virgin. I really suggest you wait until you get older because if you lose it at a young age with a guy that will screw you over, you will really regret it. Virginity is important and it's probably the best thing you can have, it's not about a race who will make it to the finish line first. Don't be a follower and follow the other teenagers footsteps now-a-days. Those kids will be screwed in their future due to bad decisions.

I'm 17 and I lost my virginity back in october. I went down to spend the night with one of my cousins at her college and I ended up going to a house party and getting totally wasted, in the process I ended up hooking up with this guy who was 20 and you can figure out the rest...

I don't regret it at all though because i've never thought that giving away your virginity was this amazingly special thing, but that's just me. For you, my advice is do what you feel is right to you, you'll know when you're ready :)

I was 16 and was no where near ready.

It affected my life tremendously. I was a good little Christian girl until I let the guy corrupt me. I was crazy in love with this guy for 4 years before I realized what a pathetic douchebag he was.

I'm 20 now and with a much better guy.

However, I don't regret a thing.

I am 18 now, but I was 15 when I lost my virginity. No regrets though, only life lessons.

17. We dated for about one year I guess. His mother was an orthodox Jewish woman and she didn't like me because I am not Jewish. He lived under her roof and by her rules. Its been so many years that I cannot even remember why we split up!! (LOL)

You are doing the right thing by waiting until you are older and feel more comfortable with your sexuality and the mate you choose to make love with. Be sure you know him well. There are diseases out there today that are deadly. Use protection and protect yourself!

Good luck

Im 17 and still a virgin :)

and im fiiine with that, you'll know when the moment (and the guy) is right.

I almost had my first time with this one guy(to get it over with), then changed my mind, and Im SO glad i did, he was an *** and if he HAD been my first I would have had to remember him forever...ick.

i was 18 with my first boyfriend and we we together for 3 years so i dont regret it we were in love and had a great relationship. i made him wait for nearly a year too just to make suer he was going to stick around.

I haven't lost my virginity and I am 14. I plan on saving it for someone I truly love, even if its before marriage.

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