my boyfriend never wants to spend time w/me. He would rather be with his boys or playing ball or video games.?

He's still a kid... and a selfish kid that is. You're much more matured that him. Are you really willing to wait for years until he matured? It's up to you.

One thing is clear right now, he doesn't care about you as much as you care about him.

I personally think you deserve someone better... who will treat you as you deserve. But when we're talking about love, it's hard to explain. So it's really up to you if you want to stay or leave. But, I will personally advise you to leave him.

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1. You can give him an Ultimatum: Meaning its either you, or the Playstation. 2. You can ask him to please give some time off of his Playstation and spend time with you. And that you'll treat him ;) 3. Or you can put a password on his PS3 by going to Settings - Security Settings - Parental Control - then it will ask u for a 4 digit password. The default is 0000, if that doesn't work than he changed it. Then you put "Level 1" and now he can't play basically any game.after that change the password so that only you know it. And if he asks you what's the password just tell him what you want to tell him then give it to him . Hope this helps! :) Btw don't break his PS3, they're pretty expensive...

I am not sure why you find him worth loving, but it doesn't sound like you love yourself enough. I don't know if he can change or not, but he is definitely not going to change if you keep doing everything for him and letting him take advantage of you. Say "no" to him when he requests you to drive him and things like that. If your boyfriend still wants to be with you, askes you why you're suddenly unwilling to drive him, and wants to change, then there is still hope. If he just yells at your or complains, then leave him, he was only using you. Sometimes people take others for granted because they do not value themselves as much as they should. Learn to love yourself and do things for yourself and others would value you the same. What are your goals? What are your passions? Spend your time on things that would improve your well-being rather than his. I think you should figure out why you do not love yourself more, and why you are willing to do so much for someone who doesn't appreciate you, and start from there.

You already know the answer, it is just hard to face because you love him. You are accepting less than you deserve because of a false hope that he will change, and he won't. If he is not that into you now, he won't be later. When a man REALLY is into you, he would make the effort and want to spend time with you just as much as you do.

I know it hurts, but you need to let go. Once you let a little time pass (and ignore his pleads for you to come back) you will be over him before you know it, and onto a man who will make you feel like the princess you are :) Trust me.

He makes YOU come pick HIM up? That's effed up. He made you wait in the car for three hours? Uhmm... HELLO! WAKE UP! You're a booty call. He's an @$$hole! Dump his sorry @$$ and find yourself someone new, who picks YOU up and takes you on dates and brings you in with him to meet his friends and who definitely doesn't let you sit in the car for three hours! If he has the potential to be a better man, then tell him that, then tell him it's over. If he has a warm hole right now that will put up with his **** and yet still put out, then why would he change? And, hey, If he does become that better man, then go back to him. But as long as you put up with his ****, he aint going to change. You need to take some strong action and dump him.

And why do you need me to tell you this? Where's your respect for yourself? Open your eyes hunny! Do you not have any self esteem? It's time to move on, and treat yourself much better!

hi,

it totally depends on how you think the relationship is going personally i'd chuck him you can do way better for yourself you deserve to be taken out on dates your a lady! give him an ultimatum tell him that you want to be wined and dined and if he really loves you he will leave his mates a few nights a week for you surely, if not then you know he's not a gentleman and that this relationship is going nowhere lets face it if he dosent take you out now what will you be doing in 5 years time? sitting on the sofa waiting for him to come home from his mates?? i dont think so! you need to stand your ground let him you know you won't be treat like this you deserve to feel like a woman and obviously he's not making you feel this way, so i'd do some serious thinking or even write him a letter but make sure he knows you want it to only be read by him, you dont want his mates knowing your business, decide whats best for you be selfish and most of all dont give into sex let him beg for a few weeks(i tried this for 4 weeks and my bf loves me for it, it proves your strength against temptation) it'll either make him respect you more or it'll make him run a mile in which case then you definately know he wasn't worth the travelling and waiting!

Be Smart Please...(As of now you are wasting ur time)

My suggestion is to BREAK UP w/ him....

But before that make sure Talk to him cass their might be a solution you both can do...

But as of now Just Talk To Him...

I think it's a typical problem between couples...

(Don't take the Break Up suggestion too seriously because their might be other solution)

I'm just SUGGESTING...

if he's not willing to spend time with you, why be in a relationship

HE IS STILL YOUNG, HE IS USE TO HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS AND THATS WHAT HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO, NO AFFINCE GUYS, BUT THEY TAKE A LONG TIME TO GROW UP AND U HAVE TO EXPLAIN EVERYTHING, QUESTION: WHEN U MENTION SPENDING QUALITY TIME HE SAYS ( WE DO ALL THE TIME, WE CAN'T SPEND EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY TOGETHER, WE HAVE TO HAVE A LITTLE SPACE, OR HE GETS MAD WHEN U MENTION SPENDING TIME WITH U AND NOT FRIENDS.) GIRL I KNOW MINE IS 30 AND STILL DOES IT. I THINK THEY JUST DON'T THINK.

hey good question uhh lets see tease ur boyfriend make him feel happy when u tease and flirt with me and then he want to spend time with u