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Why are alot of women I meet horrible to me when I first meet them?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    if you come off as snooty/slutty/conceited/bitchy, girls will be rude when they first meet you.

    also, if a girl feels intimidated by you (if you're really pretty, or guys pay a lot of attention to you) they will be that way as well. i've learned that you need to be nice to the girls, kill them with kindness, then they're the ***** if they blow you off =]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Idk, I'm a pickup artist (which lends me some cred in psychology and social dynamics), but not a mind reader.

    Maybe if you gave us some negative things you do, say, infer... and I might be able to tell you which one(s) are pissing people off? If all you say is "why are people mean to me" I can't really answer that question. It's kind of a moronic reason, actually. There could be a million reasons.

    Are you jerks to them? Are you ugly, fat, or do you stink? Do you routinely kick guys in the nuts, for an attempt at flirting? Do you spit? Do you have an angry, annoyed, depressed, worried expression, any expression/attitude that is negative and does not convey happiness?

    These are a few likely reasons out of millions.

    If these are yours, stop them. lol

  • 1 decade ago

    I would put it down to insecurity on their part. Like some of the comments here!

    If your horrible to them, well you ask for it, but I have the same sort of problems. Only a few people understand where I am coming from.

  • Maybe they are intimidated by you?

    Some girls are like that to me, as im very out spoken and loud i guess lol

  • 1 decade ago

    cuz ur profile pic is annoying...

    maybe cuz the way you come off to others isn't pleasant.

  • 1 decade ago

    I need more info.

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