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Anonymous asked in Society & CultureReligion & Spirituality · 1 decade ago

One of my close friends is now becoming gay. How can I save him?

A very close friend of mine has officially declared his desire for the opposite sex"

Gray area, I am sorry to disappoint you. But I must tell you the truth. I am gay," he said.

Having heard this, I could clearly see satan in him.

" John, you must be hypnotized by the devil," I said to him. " How close are you to Jesus?" I asked.

" I don't believe there is a God. And please, Gray area, accept who I am and respect my privacy," he said.

We all know if a man does not believe in God, he's an atheist. It was sad to let my friend go his way:

"I tell you the truth, John, I won't accept you for who you are. I dear not want to go to destruction with you, or see your evil acts around me. Go, John, go find yourself new friends; I'll be here keeping my hands clean for the Lord," I told him.

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  • Acorn
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    Nobody becomes gay. People are born that way. They only reveal it to you (and maybe to themselves) as they grow and are able to sort through their feelings.

    If you reject your friend because of this truth he told you, then you were never a very good friend to begin with. I hope John finds real friends in his future.

  • 1 decade ago

    By staying out of it...i dont want to be mean but there really is nothing you can do to "save him" everyone has there own beliefs and just because he doesn't share yours doesn't mean you have to force yours on him. If you feel that you can't hang out with him or become uncomfortable just leave. He's gay and there is nothing you can do to change that. Look, I understand your beliefs because I don't think God accepts homosexuality- but I'm not going to prevent someone from choosing there own path...you should do the same.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ah yes, that famous Christian love in action - turn your back on a close friend. I'm curious tho, are you doing so because he's gay or because he's an atheist? From the tone, sounds like the former.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your friend may be coming out, but he's not "becoming" gay - he's been gay all along.

    The rest I won't comment on but to say that I hope he finds better friends.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Silly christian he was gay all along he didn't "decide" to become gay he just decided to come out of the closet.But what a bad friend you are.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should mind your own damned business. And he isn't "becoming" gay, he was just coming out. I'm sure he was gay in the first place.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You never was his friend to begin with.

    Did not Jesus befriend the prostitute?

    Too bad you can't be more like Jesus.

  • 1 decade ago

    well you have your answer... you do not accept him for who he is so just leave it at that and both of you go your separate ways... you wouldn't like it if i told you i don't accept you for who you are and try to change you into something you are not so butt out and move on

    Source(s): atheist
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    We all have the right to choose our road to hell. Or not. This won't be your last time.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you are a guy, go down on him.

    If you are a girl, back da fug off, ho.

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