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What should I do about this girl?

I met this girl on tagged on Thanksgiving day, We were both making a connection and started dating the same night, We talked on the phone for 3 hours straight. She said she couldn't believe she found someone who can satisfied her in one night. Now December 20, I found her acting strange lately, I text her letting her know that I'll call you when I get home, And she replied saying I'm on the phone, So when I returned home I called her and she said that she is still on the other line, I asked well is it still with that same person? And she said yes, So I ask well who is this person? And she said it's this girl at my school so I will call you back, So 1 hour later she called me back saying that I sound tired so I will call you back, I told her that I was just watching a movie, and she said no no you sound tired so I will call you back.. So I said forget it we can still talk, So about 30-40 seconds later she hung up the phone and wouldn't answer about 4 rings each call. So next morning I called her and asked her what happend, and she hung up again, but she told me that she passed out last night.. December 22 around 12AM I texted her saying I really need to talk to you, Around 6AM she replied saying "Hey umm yea u text me at 12AM" it is now December 23 1:08PM and I want to know what should I do? Should I call her when her minutes are free or just let her go??

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You don't need this crap. You can do better. Find someone more respectful of your time and your feelings. You've only invested a month in this thing so you haven't lost that much. Dump her and move on. There are plenty of other girls you can date.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    I'm 5'6 also and well I really like a athletic body. My ex was my height and with an athletic body. He was very appealing to me. I once liked a guys that was like 5'3 and I really was obsessed with him. I have had another crush for a guy my height and now that I think I never liked very tall guys. I kinda feel intimidated or submissive. For me it was like I always wanted to be the tall one in the relationship. Like I'd be 185 or so and the boy 175. But I'm not 185 cm so...I don't go for very tall guys. Or if I do get in a relationship with one it would have to be with a submissive boy that'd let me feel a little dominant. That's just me tho.

  • 1 decade ago

    The problem is you are way too clingy. The fact that you wrote the times down and everything is just too much.

    Next time you meet a girl, don't be clingy and just call once. If she doesn't call or text back, then don't worry about it. If she likes you then she will call or text you back. You need to learn how to stop being so clingy. Control yourself.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you know the answer to this questions as well...but since you asked...

    What should you do? Probably just let her go...and the fact that you talk to her for three hours doesn't mean much...and in one night...yeah fairytale, no...yeah right...look I talked to my ex for at least....at least 3 hours every freaking day for a whole year.... now that's something...but it seems she is giving you the cold shoulder....so just let her go because if she really cared she'd be talking to you and not seemingly try to avoid you...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow, this is very strange. ive never heard of a girl doing this. But it sounds like she doesnt want to be with you. She might have found another guy and doesnt want to hurt you. Either way, if she wont talk to you about WHY she's not talking to you, then it's through, sorry dude, hope you find someone for new years, :]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Honestly, meeting girls over the computer isnt exactly a god relationship, she could be a 12 year old fooling around... just stop talking to her completely if shes gonna be that way.. you showed that you cared and she showed she didnt, so when she starts caring she will come crawling back...

  • 1 decade ago

    She is playing the feild and you aren't one of the players anymore.

    I have a girl now who is doing this and now I am about to give her the boot.

    Sorry dude but don't even talk to her. I bet she will start trying to hook up with you as soon as she sees she screwed up. Don't do it., Get a new girl and let her see you with new GF.

    She will self destruct.

    Good Luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just ask her out right.

    "Why aren't you returning my calls, replying to my texts, or even talking to me on the phone."

    If she gives you loads of really if-y excuses - end it.

    Sounds bad but u gotta do it before she does otherwise you'll never get ovver her.

    I hope i could help

    Good Luck with it.

    xx

  • 1 decade ago

    i'm not acusing her of anything, but how do you know she was talking to another girl? You say when you guys first met she talked to you for hours so she's probably doing it again. So do yourself a favor and just let her go.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just let her go..sounds like she is hooked up with some else. I have been there. you think its something it isn't and end up getting hurt. Just let it be and see if she may call you back, other wise just go own. Her loss.

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