What is the problem here...schools ugh?

Sounds like your son is bored. He's probably thinking at a higher level than his classmates so the lessons that they need are useless to him. I myself was in the Gifted Program in my area (slightly different title, same concept) that that was good enrichment for me; I got to spend time learning new things with intelligent peers. There's no reason not to check out the gifted program, but I'd also look into getting him bumped up a grade or switched into a better school.

But also, and equally importantly, your son needs to learn some self control. If he is distracting his classmates, who probably do need to be learning in class, then it is unfair to the other students. He should be able to entertain himself. You could suggest that he bring a book and read when he is bored instead of disrupting others, or bring a sketchbook and doodle/draw.

Although he sounds like he needs to be in a higher class, throughout life we all encounter boring situations and need to be able to entertain ourselves. Either way or both ways, the teacher would no longer have reason to bother you.

I agree with Jennifer, sounds like your son is dealing with the samethings my child is. Teachers these days seem to expect all the kids in the class to be at the same level. It is unrealistic. When they get a child like your son in their room, they don't know what to do. I get calls about my child as well. I always ask that teacher for specifics, because she just goes on about his "behaviour." Some of the things she complains about is ridiculous. Can you get examples of this test they want to give your son? At least that way you can see if it is definitely for a gifted program. As for the teacher, I would ask her for a specific example. If it is something where you don't see the problem, let her know that. Another problem with educators I am discovering. They think parents aren't as educated as they are.

Your son is excelling, and he seems to be stuck in a place that does not have the resources to support that. Maybe he's talking because he's bored, arguing because he can't stand yet another repetition of something he already knows. My kindergartener had to be moved to a higher ability-level class in his school because he was acting out from being bored and frustrated. Now that he is in a place that is more appropriate for him, his behavior issues have vanished. He still talks a little too much sometimes, or does silly, rambunctious boy stuff, but it's not a problem for his teacher and he takes little correction to be brought back in line.

I think you need to seriously consider changing schools. Does your state have charter schools? Those are publicly funded schools that are run with different methods, philosophies, and disciplines. They are usually targeted to serve a specific need or interest group. I've seen ones for performing arts, emphasis on math and science, back to basics with rigorous curriculum and strict discipline, and there is even one near me that is just for kids with learning disabilities. Your kid sounds like he could benefit from a school that supports high achievers and has a demanding curriculum.

If your state does not have charter schools, call your district and ask about magnet schools, or what they have available for high achievers. Explain that your kid is becoming a discipline problem because he is bored by a non-demanding class environment.

People never believe me when I say this, but raising the really smart kids is just as challenging as raising the ones who have disabilities. We also have to seek out specialized resources that are appropriate for our kids. We also have to deal with people who just don't understand the challenge. We have to put up with people who deny there even is any issue or challenge.

Your job as a parent is to find the best educational environment for your child, and the one he is in is clearly not it. Time to do some research.

One more thing... one of the other challenges that comes with the smart kids is not to let them turn into snobs, or let them act like adults before they're ready. You can't stop disciplining, just because they are smart. Just a heads up, from one parent to another. Good luck.

I agree with Kokita(sp?) Or just tell her to stop bugger you - flip out! Some of my friends parents do that and the teacher stays far away from the child and parent. Tell her to give him detetion and let him figure out its bad to do that **** at school. I mean it is your job to teach him whats bad and whats good but you can't watch over him while he's at school the teacher needs to do something about it.

P.S if he has that good of grades and is causing disruptions then maybe he should be bumped up a grade. Then the teachers outa your hair and the kid'll have a challenge.

Hope this helps :)

Maybe have him tested. Just so you can be sure. Tell the school principal about the teacher or send a letter to the school board. This would not be tolerated at any school.

just quit answerin her dam calls