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I'm pretty sure this girl likes me, but she doesn't wanna date anyone? DETAILS BELOW!?

Well, here's the situation. I'd known her for a while, but didn't really talk to her much. Well, lately, we started talking more and more and hanging out more and more. We have so much in common and we went to a concert and the mall. I finally decided I wanted to ask her out the other day. Just today she told me that she didn't wanna date anyone, which kinda caught me off-guard. She assumed I liked her and just said she didn't wanna date anyone because of too much drama. So, right when I thought she just didn't like me, I made a little joke about how when she was ready to date someone to let me know, and she said "I will. :)" and then just invited me to go to her lake house with her friend and her friend's boyfriend. To even get things more confusing, I just hung out with her a few days ago and we watched scary movies together and she ended up lying right next to me, putting her arm around my chest and holding my hand. Then, later that night, as I left, she made a quick heart sign with her hand, but quickly put it down. So, I'm confused as hell. I'm pretty sure she likes me, but the thing that's catching me is back when she said she didn't wanna date anyone. Can anybody help me as to what's going on???? Help!

Update:

And, Amelia, no, she wasn't drunk or high. Haha, we both live sober lives.

Update 2:

And also, READ THIS. When I say "Just today" in the details above, change that to "the other week". It happened like a week ago. Sorry for the confusion!

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  • Mc
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    When she said she didn't want to date she is testing you. Girls will almost always do this at some point in a relationship. It's frustrating but that's just the way they pick through the guys who are not serious or don't have what it takes. You have to pass this test. Just keep calmly pursuing her. Always stick to your guns and project an air of confidence. Confidence and eye contact will win this girl over. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    well i say do the same and if she want you she'll come to you, sometimes it's good to play cat and mouse, don't be rude with it but just give her a taste of her on medicine like a 3 to 7 days of no call no shows and when she ask you where have you been, yell her you were thinking about why should you stay where you live and not move, but reassure her that it's nothing personal just to see what she will say

  • crady
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Dramatic certainly. you're no longer respecting your self by using asking out a woman you comprehend is in a dating with yet another boy. you're making your self look like a impolite man or woman. Letting the female comprehend which you're there for her if and while she would desire to wreck up along with her contemporary boyfriend continues to be pushing it, yet greater suited. do you % a female pal that badly? you may date somebody you're particularly no longer that prepared directly to probable harm their coronary heart once you wreck up with them for somebody else "greater suited"? it particularly is amazingly immature Hon and rightfully so on account which you're youthful! Stand your floor like a gents and permit the female be in her dating by myself. hear, on account which you're so youthful you will exchange very lots by using the time you hit the twelfth grade you're probably to ask your self what you ever observed interior the female you like now. So this lady is taken, circulate on. you would be pleasantly greatly surprised and discover available s yet another lady available much greater suited than the single your coronary heart desires now ^^

  • 1 decade ago

    umm.. well thats confusin

    a. was she drunk or high(IM NOT ACUSING JUST SAYING)

    b. maybe it was a joke

    c. maybe she is thinking about it and she might say yes

    d. maybe shes playing hard to get

    e. maybe shes not allowed to date

    f. maybe shes had a bad bf expirience and needs to hear that not everyone was like him

    g. maybe shes changed her mind

    there could many diifferent reasons but what suggest is that if you two are that close pull her aside a tell her you really like her and want to go out and ask if there is a reason why shes not dating and idk just talk to her about if she has a reason then she will probly telll you especialy if she likes you that much and is all over you like that

  • 1 decade ago

    ok well u should keep it up theirs something called flirt:: just go with the flow and then make her happy even though ur not her boyfriends make her happy maybe she loves u but putting a name to ur status can change evrythin u now it will be drama lik she sed answer mine plisssshttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap.YE...

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