I really like this boy, but he wants to have sex ... ?

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Kay well there is this boy that I really really like he's soo different then all other guys, he's soo sweet and he would always be talking dirty, I was okay with it cause well most guys I know are like that with me so I will talk dirty back, I'm never serious though... well were 13!
and he has already done it apparently and gotten several bj's.. and he's askin if I was willing to you know.. 

BUT I DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX!!!!
I'm 13 and I'm not ready but, what should I do, I like him a lot and we were talkin bout what it would be like if we dated, I would like to, but not if he's gonna try something.. what do I tell him?
he likes me a lot too, and uuhhg, I don't know what to tell him!!
and even if he does understand what if he tries to do something, it will be totally akward fromthen on...

? · Accepted Answer

if he really likes you he will respect that you dont want to if he just wants to have sexs with you he will not understand and you need to find a boy that will and before you say yes to going out with him tell him before you aceppt that you are not going to have sexs with any one tell you are ready and if he understands you can answer him yes good luck

Nicole · Answer

He's going 2 use u. He's going 2 have sex with u and use u. At the age of 13 he's not thinking on a mature level. If he really liked u he'd wait for u, understand that u're not ready for sex. No real man is going 2 pressure u.

Max · Answer

what has happened to our world..... anyways i doubt he likes u alot sorry but its true.... every guy wants a piece of *** u will realize this when u grow up and turn 18 or 21 whichever but anyways hes just after banging u so he will say and do whatever is necessary to get into ur pants..... if ur not ready for it which im glad u feel that way, i suggest u start looking elsewhere coz this guy wont give up till he gets that ***.... so watch out

mig · Answer

hes lying about the blow jobs, at age 13 hes lucky to get a hug

kingsly · Answer

well..ur seriously really young for this...u know all the consequences of pregnancy and std's...u really need to take some space..and m pretty sure this guy needs u just for sex..if he really loves u,,he'll understand if u talk to him..

Anonymous · Answer

dont have sex you will regret it i kno tell him you arent ready and for him not to pressure you at the end if you do have sex your gna wanna take it back and your not going to be ablt to dont do anythin u dont want if he dosent respect u then he dont desrve

Anonymous · Answer

If you have sex with him, then it could wreck your life up.
Don't do it if you don't want to then you don't have to. Don't give in to peer pressure.
Tell him no and your not ready and if he bars you, so be it. Life isn't all about sex.

bbboy · Answer

noo u are too young

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