why did my ex lie to her new partner about dating me.?

down to the basics here.. people that lie cannot be trusted. people that ask others to lie for them are not to be trusted and that puts you in the exact same category. it doesn't matter WHY... but by lying along with her you're putting yourself in the same category as her A LIAR. it's a reputation that's extremely hard to live down. the truth always is the best choice. also lies have a way of compounding (and not in a good way)...and the truth ALWAYS comes out sooner or later. BE TRUTHFUL IF ASKED!!!!!!

Well most do not understand this is a gay question or a bi question . I think i figure that part out already .

So both parties are female or one is male ,I am not sure, but that might have something to do with it. I that is the case ,she might not have come out as of yet.

Might have told her the( new partner )that she has not ever been really with another female ,virgin so to speak. The pride of popping a cherry , some get off on it .

I am not trying to made something out of thin air, but your question is not clear with all details .Forgive me if I misread something that was not stated .

a) Her new partner is the jealous type.

b) She's ashamed of having dating you.

c) She doesn't want to make it awkward between you three when you all hang out.

Take your pick and/or just ask her. Best of luck.

I think she's trying to get at her new partner and she doesn't want him to know because it might be awkward or something like that .

She doesn't want her new partner to tell her that you two can't be friends. If he knew you two dated, he probably won't let her see you.

hmm

embarassed of you