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frank o asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

hardest decision of my life?!?

me and my g/f of almost 3 yrs have thought about marriage for a while now? we have two kids together and everyone is like why arent you married yet? but its hard our relationship is not the greatest we want it to be but its not! were the happiest couple for a week then we hate each others guts its alike a neverending cycle what to do what to do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Sounds like all married people

  • 1 decade ago

    get counseling and learn how to work out your problems, whether you get married or not. Learn how to communicate and how to deal with each other. They teach children to say "I have a bug and a wish" So you say to her I have a bug and a wish, it bugs me when you yell, I wish you wouldn't do that. It bugs me when you kick my chair, I wish you wouldn't kick my chair, things like that. You come to her with a problem, but a solution too. You owe it to yourself and to her to learn how to communicate, and compromise, for this relationship and any relationship person or work you have. My husband is divorcing me after 21 years of marriage because he doesn't know how to deal with his parents so because he didn't learn how to deal with people, I have to get a divorce. I wish he made an effort to learn to communicate instead of wasting my life. Peace be with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you think about her literally 24/7, theres no other women you think about, and if you really can't live without her, tell her that and ask her...

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