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Have your BFF chosen someone over you?

I'm jealous or anything but when I make plans, I stick to what I planned. I don't selfishly change them just for my own personal greed.

Update:

Last night my BFF (female) was to supposed to call me to go pick her so she can come to my family's traditional XMAS Eve party. Basically, her family went their own ways to spend XMAS elsewhere leaving her all alone. Earlier that night, she said a guy she was seeing, was supposed to come over for a while. She said there might be a small chance he stay with her the whole night. Well, it did happen. My problem with this is that we had made plans, & that I went to my family's house & asked them for permission if she can come over, which they said yes to. I basically hyped up that she was coming over. This really hurt me only because she choose to hang out with someone she barely knew for a while, instead me who she knew a lot more. I've had a problem with friends over the years that they would stood me up like this, where they would rather go f*** someone & tell me at the last minute that they cant make it. I really felt down last night & it was XMAS. I only felt happy to a point being with my family & all, but this was supposed to my first XMAS with a BFF celebrating with me. It really made me cry earlier this morning. She tried calling me after Midnight but I didn't answer because I was a little wasted & I didn't want to say anything that I might regret. She will call me eventually today but I'm know how it gonna go down. She'll apologize & then everything's okay. But what do I do? I really can't tell her any of my opinions because she has a history of verbally fighting with anyone, she freaks out, & then she may have a panic attack.I really don't know what to do. Has anyone ever had this problem & what actions did you take? Please help.

This has really been a bad year for me. It has really made more emotional than I have ever been. My ex-friend got me in scam where I owe more than 7K. My ex-girlfriend cheated on me. My BFF was the only person who made me feel happy & kept my chin up. She was there for me & last night was supposed to be a day where loved one spend together. I am not in love with her or anything, but she & I have gotten more closer this year in general. What do I do?

Update 2:

I meant to type I'm not jealous. Not I'm jealous.

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  • Chris
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    I certainly didn't read that whole thing, I'll just say that life is not stagnant; friends will come and go in your life all the time. Do you still play with the same friends you had when you were 6?

  • 1 decade ago

    family is no one.friends comes and go.

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