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Cousins in love?????????

What do you think about Cousins liking each other?? lol

Im not talking about getting married or having sex

but rather emotional spiritual connection

I moved away as a child and haven't seen or talked to my cousin for over 7 years and when we talk now he doesn't feel like a cousin ..or anything brotherly ,, when I said good night he said good night dream about me...i was really shocked and just laughed it off >.< it feels more than just family or friends

Update:

no you guys got it wrong!!! I was just wondering how you see that in general. Not about me and what I should do with my cousin I will never do anything with him..Geez!!

Update 2:

he is my dads big brothers son .. so we are blood but his sister has a diffrent dad though sucks!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    This is a very interesting question, and your feelings are not anything you should feel ashamed about. In our society, cousin relationships are looked down upon and considered incestuous, but if you look at other cultures and societies, you will find that cousin relationships are actually very common. Children of first cousin couples (related on one side only) have no more chance of having a birth defect than an unrelated couple. If however, you have a recessive trait that could cause a genetic defect, and your cousin also carries the recessive trait, that will double your changes of the child being born with the trait. If you were to seriously consider having a relationship with a cousin, it would be important to see a genetic counselor to determine if you or your cousin carry such a gene. Your likelihood of having a baby with Downs syndrome is the same as anyone else because it is a chromosomal defect, and is not genetic.

    Getting involved with a cousin is a serious decision because your family members are also affected. Because of the stigma surrounding these types of relationships (proven by the comments you've already received) your family members might not be receptive. Any decisions made in the direction of a romantic relationship should not be taken lightly. And, this kind of thing goes on much more often that you think. Famous examples of cousin marriages in the United States include Edgar Allen Poe, Albert Einstein, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, and Jerry Lee Lewis.

    Source(s): www.cousincouples.com; http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage
  • 5 years ago

    You know That Cousins make the Best ideal sex partners...

    Because,You already know each other better than two strangers who could ever know each other & Even tho You re Cousins It can only Be Sex as long as You Wear a Condom 

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well that is kinda gross but I can't say I haven't felt that way too. I'm not sure but if you think about it normal people are attracted to people who look like their oldest sibling of the opposite gender. I for one like people who look like my brother, but I wouldn't date my brother.

    What I think,is that you like people who look and act like your cousin and sense in many other countries people like their siblings and cousins more intimately, I would say that what your feeling is perfectly normal. This is also something you should keep to yourself if you want it off your back.

    Source(s): Deeper Thinking
  • 1 decade ago

    I will have to admit that this might be strange and a little gross but I guess if it makes you happy then go for it-personally I wouldn't do it but if you feel like you are a perfect match for him.....go 4 it

  • 1 decade ago

    dont listen to anyone

    it depends how you feel towards them

    no-one can call you incest because incest means with you brother or sister not cousins !

  • 1 decade ago

    dont get deep into it cuz ur kids with have like 11 toes or fingers or be like screwed up. its not right. its nottttt right. at all.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your children will come out with genetic disorders such as down syndrome.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him, you love him as a brother; else, tell him is ok, but he must ask your parents' permission; otherwise, you will have to explain that to your parents.

  • 1 decade ago

    plz stop hez ur cousin thatz jus weird

    anwser minez plz

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=200912...

  • 1 decade ago

    There's nothing wrong about that.

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