Why dont guys like insecure girls?

Not looking them in the eyes, showing that your nervous(tapping something in a rapid motion), kicking your legs, talking really fast, laughing nervously, one-word answers are all clear signs the girl is shy/insecure with herself.

You cannot hide the problem; only fixing it will help. Know that you are you. Accept that you cannot change who you are and love yourself for it. Your beautiful and nobody can change your mind. Go by the beat of your own drum and enjoy it!

You only live once. Instead of wondering "what if," talk to the guy. To answer your question, guys seem to get intimidated by insecure/shy girls when they LIKE them.

from my brother, and the guys i've known, insecure means "doesn't really know herself or what she wants"

guy translation: "she's risky, because when she figures it out then she'll be off on another path"

and if you're a guy, you want a girl who knows herself well enough to know if she wants to be with the guy. the best remedy for feeling insecure is to talk about what you want in life. you may find it helps you, and helps both you and your bf get closer.

don't hide. talk with your guy.

good luck. you'll find a way, and a great life.

Guys can tell that a female is insecure all the time if the girl is accusing the guy of looking at other girls, if the girl keeps saying that she does not like the way she looks, always accusing him of cheating when he's not.

Nobody likes to be around somebody who need constant re-assurance being whiny all the time.

Confidence is attractive in both men and women. The opposite is not. Life is too short to waste time on girls with psychological issues. Mentally stable and happy girls is what any guy should strive for instead of having to play therapist for your girlfriend all the time

Whenever you feel down about yourself remember this.

Girls have it a lot easier finding partners than guys do. Girls are the choosers. If you are insecure then work on yourself. Do sports, go to the gym, learn how to apply makeup properly, see a therapist. Do what it takes for you to get out of the sillyness of it all

because when a girl is insecurce a lot of the times they tend to ask their boyfriend questions about themselves because they have such low self esteem and of course ur boyfriend will think ur beautiful but they dont want someone who isn't confident and always complaining about things. ways to hide it... don't complain, love urself, be confident!

personally i don't like insecure girls because from my experience they whinge all the time and make up stuff to make u feel sorry for them, and they are always negative and only see the bad side of everything, like i said, thats only my personal experience.

we don't really care if they are insecure or shy

If your boyfriend doesn't like the fact that you're insecure, be secure.

becaus eyou dont know what you want and you are showing that, just be urself and you wont have a problem..be secure

if you dont like your face and you haft to put alot of makeup on then maybe they dont like you doing that but just dont put it on and dont be insucure kay