My hubby brings up the OnE flirty/fresh thing i've done in the past?

I find your behavior very nice and engaging, but your husband's new habit is quite depressing. Well, some men cannot appreciate their wife's good character. Somehow I feel that he started torturing you. Ask him what is the real (and deep) reason of it. My imagination is that he started to feel that he was not enough socializing with girls before your marriage. This can be dangerous, so look for a good counseling.

Oh, I do this all the time. enable me wager, you're a perfectionist, and additionally you will't help beating your self up over each little factor? right this is what I consistently do: think of of all the folk you recognize. who's the main sensible, truthful guy or woman you could think of of which you're feeling comfortable conversing to? it is a discern, a grandparent, an aunt or uncle, a pal, anybody. flow tell that guy or woman approximately despite you're feeling undesirable approximately, and why you experience that way. hazard is, they are going to inform you promptly that it isn't any longer almost as vast a deal as you think of it is -- and if this opinion is one you have confidence, that makes a distinction. Or in case you nonetheless experience dissatisfied approximately it, they are able to help you think of of something you're able to do to "stability out" despite you probably did. Like in case you by twist of destiny harm somebody's thoughts a whilst in the past, do something helpful for them, or something alongside those strains.

Congrats on your Mom to be and best wishes. This "flirtation" thing is not really something to get so upset over. Your hormones will soon kick in and then the fun begins but this is really nothing. Its not like you cheated or anything and I dont see his logic here. He should be glad it that it was him that you did this with and not a best friend or someone close. Tell him to grow up and get over it like a real man. He just needs to realize that you married him and that hes lucky to have you. many guys would die to have a woman like you and hes the one you married. His train of thought here is condusive to that of a typical male with trust issues so expect it. Professional counseling could do wonders for him. Good luck, best wishes and Happy New Year

His insecurity and immaturity. Hard to figure out what's on his mind unless you have some regular communication and intimate talk. You don't know what's inspiring his thoughts unless you ask HIM.

Your flirting was directed at HIM, but perhaps he has some thoughts or fantasies he hasn't admitted to you that is messing with his mind. Time for some open and totally honest non judgmental two way communication.

hopefully hes not thinking that your up to something ,because he is. usually the accuser is the guilty one. tell him if hes so unsure of you then maybe he needs to have you followed or he can tie himself to you and go everywhere you do. ask him why he wouldnt trust you,besides that one kiss. tell him he needs more then that to hold on you. if hes trully faithful and loves you then he needs to grow up and see the family that he has coming with you.

uhhhh :S, his insecurity and not yours, you've never given him a reason to not trust you, so tell him to get over this and enjoy the anticipation of being parents together for the first time...if this behaviour continues and get begins getting possessive and scary jealous RUN

Tell him unless he gets counseling for his paranoid thinking and harassment of you that you are going to leave him!

Stand up to him and tell him if that's what he thinks of you, then you have no use for him.