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LOVE ISSUES.help me pleasee..?

here's da prob.theres a friend of mine.she really need my help but i couldnt find any solutions yet.

well,she got issues with her love life in which she still loving her ex,still cant get over him like totally..(her ex is currently single btw)she wishes to get back n wants him to know her true feelings but then shes afraid tht it might not turn well as she wanted to be.so wht do say guys?any solutions?

should she be telling da truth ?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    We'd need to know more about their previous relationship and reason for break-up to answer that. If there were no major issues like cheating, or mistreating, or disrespect or anything, then sure go for it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She should absolutely tell the truth. What is there to lose?

    One way, if she tells him the truth and it doesn't work out, then she can move on.

    Another way, if she sits around worrying and never tells him, she still has to move on.

    So, the only way to know anything and get something done - is to tell him her feelings.

    She should invite the dude to nice place of some sort. She could spend the time just talking,

    remembering old times or something.. Then later, she could tell him her true feelings.

    It all comes down to how he feels about her. The only way to find out is to ask him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, I'm a guy,and from my point of view,she should give it a try,but I think it mostly depends on the motive they broke up... If she is so afraid maybe you should talk with that guy and maybe it will work out for your friend.

    Hope I helped!

    Source(s): My own experience :)
  • 1 decade ago

    The truth is always the best way to go, even if it ends up hurting you. You can't learn and grow without making mistakes and taking risks.

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    5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why are you asking about her?.. you seem like a good & cool friend.. but seriously,, why doesnt she come on the website & ask.. & its cool how you care.. i wish i had a friend like that.. all my friends care about are guys,gossip,clothes & popularity & nothign else.. But i think she shouldnt tell him,, she should wait till he comes to her & she should not talk to him for a while to see if he still likes her .. srry i didnt rlly help but,,yeah :D

  • 1 decade ago

    My mate was like that recently,but she did tell him, and after a month he wanted her back, but only for sex and stuff. But then again hes just a man hore.

    If i were her i would just tell, if she gets rejected too bad, everyone gets rejected.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    take the chance

    try to talk it over be truthful

    tell your friend to tell the guy all her feelings and whats in her mind

    if the guy doesn't want to talk to her then give him space

    hes still hurt but TRY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    She could tell him her feelings and the way she feels towards him but if he doesn't feel the same way, she's going to have to accept that it's not meant to be.

  • 1 decade ago

    she should tell him. At least she would know, and if if doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be. Much better than to go through life wondering!

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