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Why do I feel this way?
Can anyone tell me whats wrong with me?
Recently, my boyfriend of 9 months and i broke up. I still care about him but I know that I don't want to be in a relationship with him anymore. He emotionally abused me really badly and I just can't take that again. But lately, I have been really depressed. All I want to do is sleep and most of its during the day. And I can't get to sleep at night till like 2 in the morning. I have so many emotions running thru my head. I get upset about everything and I feel like my life is just torn apart. I feel like I don't fit in with my friends anymore and I am just so sad. Please someone tell me what to do to help me. I am usually a smart, caring, fun girl. But now, I'm not.
2 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
A broken heart is a broken heart. You need time to heal. The one thing that you need to do is make sure you don't slip into anything farther than that. If you were emotionally abused than perhaps your view of yourself and others around you is skewed. You need to constantly tell yourself until you believe that you are worth it. I know it is easier said than done, but sometimes, it is up to you to pull yourself together because no one else can truly make you believe in what you believe. Some may have some influence like your former boyfriend, but in the end you still have control in what you believe in. So you need to believe in yourself and know that you do deserve happiness. Tell yourself that this entire is a learning experience and not necessarily all a bad thing. You are gaining a greater perspective because of this.
In the end, it is up to you in how you view and label the different aspects of your life.
I hope you can get pass this and find someone else that truly deserves you :]
- 1 decade ago
i know how you feel. but everyone must find their own way to cope your best bet is to socialize get out and talk to people as much as you can that is the best advice i can give you nice people who truly care for you and make you feel needed at least that is how i coped to my similar problem
