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What do i do!? What do i do?! Please help.?
okay, I've been in a relationship for 1 year with an amazing guy. Well at least he was.. Over the summer we were getting along great.. But then school came back around and the phone calls stopped and we never talk anymore. His grandpa just recently passed away adn he has been having a real hard time with that. he wont talk about anything with me and he never wants to hang out. He always makes time to talk with the other girls in school but he always says to me that he doesnt want to be late for class if he talks to me. he wont hug me kiss me or even hold my hand anymore. If i try to confront him about things he denies it adn he says he still cares but it never seems it. I miss him but.......
then theres this guy who is in my shop class. he is my best friend. I can count on him for everything. he is moving out of state in less than a week. I finally realized that i like him, A LOT. i thought he should know so i told him. I found out he feels the same way. I dont know what to do. I cant handle a long distance relationship. But i also cant handle having a boyfriend that doesnt seem to care. i have feelings for both of theses guys but how do i handle my feelings for my boyfriend adn for my best friend that i have feelings for?
yes.. i understand that i may need to just give him some time but its been almost 2 months. I feel like he his taking it out on me. Shouldnt he want to talk to me about things and want me to be there for him?
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well first i think that you should ask your boyfriend to just take some time out of his schedule and talk about things.You should just talk about the problems and if he denies it then i guy your guys should'nt be together anymore.And i know that would be hard,but i dont think you would want to waste your time with someone that barely talk to you.And i know it hard especially if you have feelings for him, but as times pass it will go away.And for the best friend probably you should'nt have a relationship with him if you cant handle a long termm relationship.Thats going to make it even harder.
Hope i helped :)
- 1 decade ago
Having someone move away is really hard, especially if you haven't had a relationship like that before. You said your boyfriend's? grandpa just passed and he's taking it really hard so as of right now you have to give him the space he wants. avoid worrying about other girls he's talking to. sometimes in any relationship, guy or girl, you always want to get out of it. If you give time with your boyfriend? i'm sure it'll work out. Just make sure to talk to him after he feels okay about his grandpa
- Anonymous1 decade ago
but your best friend is moving...so what's the point in that? I think you should give your boyfriend time and wait on him school is really tough and his home life sounds tough too, he may be avoiding ang ignoring you to deal with the stress and confusion in his life, and he does care he's just really confused right now.