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My friend needs advice on talking to girls (HELP PLEASE)?
Ok so my friend is 14 and he is a really nice guy, but he has problems talking to girls, I have tried to help him out of it, but I can't!!!
HELP
9 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
XD. Your..."Friend" needs help, O...k. If you can't help your "Friend", I assume you can't talk to girls either so I'll say this to both of you. Be nice and funny around girls. They won't bite. If your "Friend" is as nice as you say he is, then he shouldn't have a problem. Just go up to a girl and talk, don't be shy, girls like social dudes, shyness will leave your "Friend" as a 40 year old virgin. Be fun and truthful. Also don't let your "Friend" embarrass himself badly in front of girls. They love to laugh, especially at boys and NEVER talk about how big your "Junk" is, your "Friend will learn the hard way. (Jordan won't feel his nuts for weeks). One more thing, don't be afraid to say you can't talk to girls, you don't have to use you "Friend" for all us to know its you you are talking about. It's okay, I could'nt talk to girl until I started highschool too.
Source(s): I got a Girlfriend from using this advice my older bro gave me. - 1 decade ago
OK here is some of my best advice juices lol....
#1. compliments
flattery will get you EVERYTHING and get you EVERYWHERE
if this guys likes a girl or thinks she is pretty, he should tell her. Who cares about what anyone thinks, just tell her, not in a creepy way, but in a nice way...for ex:
"You look really pretty today ______, did you do something different to your hair?" or "thats a nice sweater, the color is very flattering on you"
#2 Be FUNNY
girls LOVE guys who are funny! crack some jokes, make fun of the teacher, say something unique and hilarious, make an impression of a funny/popular movie, just be funny and nice and cool. If she sees that you are outgoing AND funny, she will take notice and so will her friends
#3 Get some guy friends
Girls tend to go for popular guys, or at least a guy who she can ask about YOU to haha. If she has a friend who is friends with this guy, then it increases his chances of getting in good with her
#4 Go for it
if this guy wants to talk to a girl, then do it. STOP being sucha pus*y, girls admire guys who have guts, who can go up to them and start talking, tell a joke, invite her to a cool party, suggest they do something fun or WHATEVER! just go for it!
GOOD LUCK!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Take it from a girl's point of view..
Have him go up to whatever girl and just be like "Hello" and smile.
If the girl blows him off, then have him try again. If the girl keeps ignoring him or being rude, then she's not worth it.
Get a friend that's a girl and just talk to her both of you, and the more girls he talks to as friend, the more comfortable he'll be with talking to a girl he likes.
It takes practice, honestly.
- 1 decade ago
aww what a sweetie!! tell your friend that many girls are equally as shy! tell him to see what mutual friends him and the girl share, and maybe you should start a conversation in the group that may lead to a potention one-on-one convo with the girl=] even if he makes a joke, if he sees her laughing, thats a good sign and at that point there is no need to feel afraid to talk to her.
i'm convinced that shy guys end up being better boyfriends anyway. i would know. i have one hehe
good luck to your friend!
- 1 decade ago
JUst tell him to talk to girls like any other person.
Don't act any differently, not extremely sweet, & not an asshole either.
Obviously, girls like funny guys.
But not obviously TRYING to be funny...
& a little teasing is always good. [;
Tell him to start by talking to girls he doesn't like so much, as of to "practice"
Then move on to the cute girls he's interested in. [;
You know, so he gets the hang of it.
Just be cool, and don't be a douchebag.
Source(s): Ima girl? Derrr [; - Anonymous1 decade ago
its not to hard just tell him to walk up and talk to someone, girls i just like boys but more emotional
- Anonymous1 decade ago
its not that hard
girls like to laugh
girls like to ave fun
and have a good time
Source(s): im a girl - Anonymous1 decade ago
HA! Your "Friend"