GIRLS: IS THIS GIRL SLUTTY?

Hey bro I have some simple advice you might want to consider.

Are you the kind of person that is genuine in regards to others feelings?

If you are then consider this:

The questions you raise about your friends behavior:

A. how can she be in love with four different guys within a year?...

Maybe your definition of love and hers are different. Maybe she has not experienced the level of love that two people share with a commitment of monogamy...many people learn the beauty of a relationship with one person by experiencing other things first. She may have some emotional issues she may not. Who doesn't among us? I do.

She is young. So are you. I know it may seem like you need this relationship with this girl to be a one on one but ask yourself if you think she is ready for that right now. What do you think the chances of you two having a healthy relationship are by looking at her actions?

Please do not get me wrong. I am not judging her or you. Do your best to look at it objectively...which leads me to the other question that I would like you to take a look at.

How can someone go about having sex with three partners within a year?

My friend it is a lot easier for a woman to have sex in our culture ( USA ) than a man.

Answer this truthfully please... If you went to the market today and a attractive woman wanted to have sex with you..how hard would she have to try to put it together? Okay then the next day while you were pumping gas in your car a hottie comes up to you and wants it too? How much difficulty is she going to have? I am not saying you would not be faithful in a relationship. It's just something for you to ponder, when you are asking those questions of your friend.

FRIEND. That is a great subject. This girl sounds like she needs a friend. It sounds like she has been somewhat honest with you. Can I suggest something for you to try?

Don't try to be her boyfriend. Not right now. Even if she says she wants you to be. Don't. Don't give her attitude about it either. Be her friend and love her. No matter what she does. Do you have a friend like that? Not many do. Be that for someone and see what happens.

You both have a lot of time. Life is not a horse race. Relax ,laugh, have fun don't be so damn serious. Things always work out whether we worry or not. Love a friend without any conditions... it may not be easy but the rewards are unequaled.

Peace to you and everybody else...

She is still young man, but don't call her a slut just yet. She was honest with you. Two sexual partners in 6 months isn't bad at all. I had two sexual partners in a matter of 6 months, but I'm not a slut and definitely do not sleep around. Now, she may eventually become a slut, or might not become a slut. You can stay involved with her to find out, but she isn't ready for a serious relationship and jumps from guy to guy because she doesn't know who she wants. Find a woman who knows what she wants if you do not have the patience to deal with that.

She said she loved all of them? I think that she just had sex with them and liked them all, but there is no way she could love them all! Also 22 is really old for a 16 year old... I'm surprised she gave up her virginity to him. Tell her you like her but don't wanna have sex right away, you wanna find the perfect time. If she complains she's no worth it. If she agrees the moment should be special and you should both be ready then it should work out.

im gunna try 2 answer this with the deepest of respect

no she is not

the fact that her 1st bf was 22 should b immaterial 2 u i met one of my bf wen i was 16 n he was 22 and that is not a lot when u r in a relationship

secondly 4 someone with sexual experience 2months into dating is a gud peried 2 wait b4 having sex with a guy

and if she wasnt with u 4 6 months and shes had 2 guys then that is her choice

sex is what sex is and it means what it means to her

she is young and doing what she wants and is not hurting anyone

believe me this is not slutty compared to a lot of girls her age around now

her feelings for u probably are real and u may nt b ready 2 have sex but please dont judge her as a slut that is incorrect make ur judgement if 2 b with her or not based on feelings not that u think she is a slut or her image cos if it was a guy no 1 would abt an eyelid

Its simple. Take it from a guy who knows how guys work. Even though each and every one of us is different, some guys are males and some are Men. A MALE (someone who thinks of only himself and what can make him good. Lets his emotions and urges rule him, someone who acts like a child when things don't go his way.) A MAN (Someone who greatly respects women, but not be a walking doormat. Knows how to take charge and go after a smart, strong, independent woman. One who pays enough attention to his woman to the point where he knows what she wants by just a glance. One who knows how to deal with issues and end conflicts with others without acting like a child. Is a well dressed and groomed person. One who knows how to survive without a woman.) Hope this helped.

I think that you can do one of two things:

1.) Forget her past and get to know her for her (after she has been tested lol) And go from there with a new start in your relationship together.

OR

2.) Continue being judgmental and questioning whther she is slutty. She is human just like everyone else and if you can't see past her mistakes or choices, then you shouldn't be with her.

I do respect your feelings on her having many sexual partners because women get a bad rep from it unlike guys which is totally unfair but again, that is her past, so accept her for who she is and don't hold it against her (if you're a good guy, you'll be able to)

Good luck hon! =)

Dont believe her. She's a gold digger. It's possible to fall in love vey easily but anyone who can't go without sex for at least two wks is just a whore. She'll end up cheating on you or breaking up with you if you dont give her sex bc she will go try to find it from someone else.

I think she is SLUTTY. It's really obvious. It's very rare to meet a woman like that, trust me.

This girl doesn't LOVE all the 4 guys, but she LUSTS them. And Love is different from lust.

Well, i do agree with you about not sure if you would want to date a girl like that specially if she might want it, but your not ready at that time, she could go find herself someone to killl time with. But it could also mean that she's someone that isn't stable with partners and that could be a big heart braker. Is a tough one really, but i think you'll be better off with someone who truly deserves you!

You know how being clever is a good quality but some people say 'nerd'

being hot and sexually adventurous is a good quality but some people say 'slut'

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