My boyfriend wants sex...Im not ready.?

Deny his request.

Having a baby after college would be a lot easier. And your chances of having decent insurance would be greater. During college pregnancy is hard. I had an easy first pregnancy at 23. I went back to college a year ago and am now 1 year in. I was put on bed rest and thankfully because I have a 4.0 my instructors have allowed me to work from home, which they are not supposed to and don't have to. And it's still rough. Also, I recommend living your life a little first. If your boyfriend is still around in 5 years you will know it's a better situation. What's the rush? Edit- In response to your edit. Hard isn't the word for having a baby and going to college. I'm a lot more dedicated and older than you, and have more on the line at this point. And I have plenty of days in which I want to quit. Here's another issue that anyone can face. What happens if your baby is disabled? It happens. What if you have to be home all of the time to care for the baby? WHat if your boyfriend loses his job? You will do what you want (which isn't what your boyfriend wants, so that's something you SHOULD be considering but you are not) but most likely you will live to wish you had waited.

Say You Don't Feel Comfortable and To Wait a little or save it for a special occasion! ; )

(Like Valentines Day, Or The NEXT Christmas)

Or Say I Want To Wait Until I Know That You Really Love Me! Because I Don't Want To Do It And Then You Go Run Away.

And If He Leaves You Just b/c You Didn't Have Sex With You, You Know That He Wasn't Really There b/c He Loved You, He Just Wanted The Sex!

So? If your not ready for sex, then just tell him. If he REALY loves you he'll understand and wait. And if he gets mad and leaves you, then forget him. Cuz if he dose get mad then that means that he ONLY wants you so he could have sex with you in the first place. So just explain to him that your not ready to have sex. Explain to him EXACTLY how you feel and see what happens. If he understands then it's all good. But if he dose get mad, then that means he only wants you for sex in the first place, SO DUMP HIM if he dose get mad. Im sorry if you don't like this Halle but it's the only way. And you never now, if he dose get mad and you dump him, he might realize that he made a HUGE mistake and come running right back to ya. So just tell him how you feel about this and get it over with. If he gets mad, you know what you have to do.

He won't get mad unless he really loves you. If he gets mad when u tell that then i dont think he doesnt really love you. You should preserve yourself cupcake. If you're not ready yet, don't push yourself. Virginity is very important. My gf lost her Virginity to me last 2 months and she's kind of down right now cuz she misses the kid she used to be. im feeling guilty. but she told me not to cuz we both agreed on it. You know sex is a big deal. So you should do it whenever u feel like ur ready so you wont be very likely to have regrets.. (how old are u anyways, if ur 18+ i think thts a perfect age to do it not unless ur not ready yet. my girl lost hers at the age of 15 so i really feel sad for her im 15 too btw turning 16)

Okay let's put it like this. If you tell him you're not ready and he gets mad then that's on him. You guys have been going out for 14 months! Without sex. He can wait until you're ready seeing as though he's been waiting as long as he has. If you're not ready he should respect that and wait until you're comfortable.

Gosh, well, this is a tricky one.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating too. he asked me if I wanted sex and I told him no.

He was ok with it.

If your not ready yet tell him. maybe say " (his name) i'm not ready to have sex yet.

mabey later?ok?I love you." ???? too mushy?

Then maybe give him a kiss or something.

you shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to do.

if he gets mad, i'm sure he'll get over it.

If you don't want to have sex, mabey just kiss him a few times and he'll feel ok.

Good luck :)

14 months after all this time you could trust him ,because he could easily find a girl and sleep with her just one week after dating her . If he wait all this time he is in love with or very ugly and have no chance to find someone else . Do it

tell him you arent ready. If he loves you he will respect that.

If he gets mad, you deserve a better man.

Nobody should ever be forced to do something they don't want to

Stay with your feelings and beliefs and don't let anyone change them.

If you have been dating that long, you should have sex next time he asks you.

Tell him you don't want it.

If he gets mad, break up with him.

If you say, "no" and he keeps swaying you, believe it or not its sexual assault.

Or if you don't really say yes or no, thats also sexual assault..

Be careful and give a straight up answer